tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10269300769965759882024-03-13T02:38:37.123-05:00BIGGER Impact NewsletterGet BetterNOTABLE and NEWSWORTHYhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12124005321873558462noreply@blogger.comBlogger189125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1026930076996575988.post-56682676406496464482012-11-27T20:27:00.002-05:002012-11-27T20:30:22.057-05:00[Videos] Success Secrets: Be, Do, Have & Creating Magic in Your Life<h2>
Success Secret: Be. Do. Have. </h2>
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This concept is the mecca of making it happen. It’s the principle of all principles. It is truly a success secret. The secret to anything you want to accomplish in life is created through this process. Every time.<br />
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The success secret is be, do, have.<br />
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Whether you know it already or not. Do you have a goal? What you learn in this video will give you a simple, clear path to create whatever reality you want in the world and to achieve any goal. It’s time tested and has no cultural boundaries.<br />
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Success Secret: Creating Magical Experiences in Your Life Over & Over Again</h2>
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This video will change your life if you watch it all the way to the end. Inside I discuss a process I’ve used over and over again in my life to create magical experiences. The kind of moments that can only be explained by ‘coincidence.’ And, I help make it accessible through sharing a detailed personal story of a magical experience I created.<br />
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Inside I walk through a visualization exercise to help you recognize the moments that you have already created in your life but may not have realized yet. Seriously, this process will change the way you look at the world. And, it will help elevate your game to another level of success, achievement, production…whatever you’re trying to accomplish – industry specific or otherwise!NOTABLE and NEWSWORTHYhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12124005321873558462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1026930076996575988.post-69684061722960840232012-11-07T22:28:00.001-05:002012-11-07T22:38:33.021-05:00What is your personal brand? Branding lessons from Kendra Scott.<br />
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Did you even know you had one? What are you doing right now to build your brand? Or, are you deteriorating it? Inside this video are eight essential techniques for effectively branding yourself personally as well as your business. These are the keys to putting you on the map learned directly from multi-million dollar brand builder, Kendra Scott (<a href="http://www.kendrascott.com/">www.kendrascott.com</a>). </div>
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NOTABLE and NEWSWORTHYhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12124005321873558462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1026930076996575988.post-15364031730855866332012-11-07T22:08:00.004-05:002012-11-07T22:31:00.926-05:00Commanding a presence in your leadership (Video)<span style="color: #a2c4c9;">Hey! Just put up another video on the YouTube channel which you can subscribe to by <a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/JWNormanMedia" target="_blank">clicking here</a>.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="color: #a2c4c9; line-height: 18px;">What is it about certain leaders that absolutely captivates us? What is effective leadership? What draws us in to WANT to be led by them? It's their presence. Inside this leadership video is a powerful real life story...and a break down of 7 essential elements of being an effective, powerfully present leader. This training will help you bring the skills you need back to your own life personally or in business. Also, you may pull away some great leadership quotes to hang on your wall & inspire you on a daily basis. </span></span><br />
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</span><span style="line-height: 18px;"><span style="color: #a2c4c9;">P.S. Let's connect on Twitter. Follow me by <a href="https://twitter.com/Normanized" target="_blank">clicking here</a>. </span><!--------></span>NOTABLE and NEWSWORTHYhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12124005321873558462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1026930076996575988.post-67274130016074192842012-10-31T21:16:00.000-05:002012-10-31T21:16:08.938-05:00Original motivational & inspirational running quotes & videos<br />
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Both co-founders of Bigger Impact, Ben & me, have been runners for a long time. Here are a few original motivational running quotes I wrote over the course of my competitive career noted below. Check out the videos as well! Enjoy!</div>
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I’ve been running competitively & to keep my sanity (or
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college at SUNY Geneseo, I wrote some poetry which represents the core of
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First, here are thoughts on a classic race distance…</div>
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“On the starting line of a 5k race, no one is better than
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“Running is an addiction.
It’s a peace when the world seems overwhelming. It’s a harmonious effort between your mind,
body, and spirit to find rhythm in the world.
You drive your body through hell to feel so close to heaven. It’s the chance each person possesses to do
the impossible; not the impossible for someone else, but for themselves. The opportunity to break down the barriers
people set in their minds that limit them from their potential, not only as a
runner, but as a human being. It’s
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“I love to run in the rain because others fear it. When they seek the comfort of a sun-beaten
path I take haven in the calm of a rain-swept street. Most of the competition wastes their time
waiting for Mother Nature to work with them while I take heed and ask her for a
dance. Some say the rain is a lonely
creature because it causes so many to seek shelter and run away, therefore, I
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While I rhythmically pound the pavement the rain runs over my body
cooling me, energizing me, and making me crave it even more. At these moments I make peace with myself and
with my God. He challenges me with one
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">I met Laurie for the first time a few years ago at a Ken Blanchard event in Rochester sponsored by the Entrepreneur’s Organization – Western New York. On behalf of EO-WNY, she introduced Ken. I was immediately intrigued by her vibrance and sense of humor. Since then, I’ve participated as often as possible in sales and workforce trainings put on by her company, Unlimited Coaching Solutions. Laurie and her team are tremendous models of the strategies they teach. As a successful business owner, middle child of 14, and single mother of one, Jade, Laurie’s story is simply fantastic. It is an honor to feature, Laurie, a woman who I consider my friend and colleague, in this final issue of Bigger Impact Weekly. ~Joseph<o:p></o:p></i></div>
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As you know, I’m very independent. I was still in college when I was set to have Jade. My high school sweetheart and I were together and it was a cute story, but we didn’t agree on a lot of things. Although we were together for a long time, I knew that it wasn’t going to work. Long story short, Jade was in 2<sup>nd</sup> grade when we split. </div>
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We all are on our own life path and we all need to learn different ways. I respect that we have our different views of the world. If I looked back at the relationships that haven’t “worked” for me, I can truly say that through all of them – whether they were significant other, friends, or with clients – I’ve learned so much from them. I truly appreciate the fact that I wouldn’t be who I am right now without those experiences. </div>
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Everyone has their own stuff going on. And, it’s not that I don’t believe in marriage, it’s just that I think marriage is a very antiquated approach because people change! Divorce is a new beginning for a lot of people. </div>
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It has been really interesting to raise a child as a single parent. I came from a blended family with 14 children. I had seen a lot going on in terms of communication and relationships. One of the reasons I chose to be a single mother, I saw a lot of damage happen from two parents staying together that shouldn’t have necessarily been together. </div>
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I felt like I had a better chance this way. And, growing up, Jade spent time with her father during high school and she really excelled. If it was just about me, I would never have let her go, but it was about her. </div>
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I grew up in Cortland, New York. While I was there I worked for Smith Corona for a long time…starting on the factory line. I was a single mother, getting my degree at the same time. I really got to experience all different types of jobs throughout that organization. I worked in Accounting while we went through a Chapter 11, and I spent time in Human Resources and on the sales force. At one point, I went on the Shop at Home Network for them. </div>
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Oddly enough, none of these moves were really planned. In fact, with the Shop at Home Network, nobody really wanted to do it, but I was always willing to just jump in and do something new. I had no training but I did it and I loved it! </div>
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To be uncomfortable to me was fun. It was learning. Little did I know at the time that this type of workforce development would be my eventual field. </div>
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When I started in school I was going to be an English teacher. But, because I was working at the same time, I got more interested in business so I switched to economics. </div>
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Then I met with a career counselor at Cortland who helped me discover that one of my core competencies was communication. So, I started taking communications classes and I totally loved it. Even Media Law! </div>
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Luckily, I got so many opportunities at Smith Corona. Many of my moves throughout the company were lateral, just to keep my job while the company restructured. Once, I inquired about a product development job and when I did, the coordinator gave me a manual and said, “Go home, read this, and give us a presentation on it tomorrow.” So, I did it and I really wowed them! </div>
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From that point, I moved quickly from product development to software to soft skills. And, when I found soft skills I absolutely fell in love. </div>
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I founded the training development program at Smith Corona and created a whole university of courses for them. I brought people in and created courses myself – not realizing what an opportunity that was at the time. It was like, “Hey Laurie, we need to do this but we have no budget. Can you help us?” That experience proved to be so valuable to me. </div>
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When Smith Corona was filing Chapter 11 for the second time, I could see the writing on the wall. So, I went in to see the CFO who I had worked for in the past, closed the door, and requested to get the courses I developed. Long story short, I got them and I got to start my business with a lot of intellectual property. </div>
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I’ve been inspired by some awesome people like Ken Blanchard and I consider myself really just a messenger. I have unique and creative ways of delivering that message, but if you go way back, in my opinion, people are saying the same stuff.</div>
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In 1999, after a brief stint with Comp USA Training, I started Unlimited Coaching Solutions. </div>
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When I first started my business, I went from a very good salary to nothing. And, I’m the kind of person that jumps off a cliff then looks…so I had minimal savings. I knew that I wanted to do this so I went out there and did it. I’ve always trusted my ability to come out ok. </div>
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Jade was about 12 at the time. I was ripping her out of school, moving to Rochester, and I didn’t know a soul. It was crazy. We learn the best by throwing ourselves into a new job or new experience like that though. In fact, 70 percent of learning comes from that. </div>
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I did not have the road map when I started, but I was clear. It started with just me and slowly we built up to 6 at one point and now we’re back to 4 employees. The company has been pretty natural and fluent. </div>
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The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz is a huge part of what we do now and that happened through Ray Justice. In early 2000, he was a mentor and coach of mine. I was speaking to him at one point and I said, “I get this training thing but something is missing.” He said to me, “I just finished this book and I don’t know why, but you need to read it.” I trusted him so of the 10 books in my “to read” pile, this one went to the top. </div>
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And, as I read it, I had a movie playing in my mind of how exactly it would fit into what I was doing. It was amazing. So, I started down the path of contacting the author about using it in my training. He put me in touch with the publisher and they gave me permission to use it! </div>
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At that point I began to participate in their trainings. Me being all business, I thought I was going to learn how to apply these materials in the workplace but it ended up touching my life in a very personal way. My life dramatically changed. </div>
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My relationship with my father improved. It was never bad, but I was the middle child of 14 so I got lost in the shuffle a little bit! </div>
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He is a self-employed carpenter and he was in Rochester working on a special job at the time so I let him stay at my house. He saw the book on my coffee table and said, “What is this?” I said, “Just read it…and if you want to discuss it, I’ll spend the entire weekend with you.” Now, I was single at the time so this was a big deal! </div>
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He read it and he said to me, “Wow, if I read this earlier I never would have needed Prozac!” My father is a Veteran. This experience started a whole new relationship between us with a common interest! </div>
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If you can help people be successful in their relationships with people, the workplace benefits. It’s really just a venue to reach people with the message. It’s all just empowering people to make a difference. To me empowering is a mix of inspiration and the resources to act. </div>
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I got started with EO-WNY by a great guy, Ralph Dandria, a partner of ITX. I was at a party and we got talking. He wanted some training and he said, “Wow, you’d be a great candidate for EO!” Right away people were so generous. And, generosity to me is an attractive thing. That is EO for sure. One of our major objectives is to provide the best learning opportunities possible not only for members, but for the community as well. </div>
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It’s an organization that truly wants to help entrepreneurs grow. </div>
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Something else that I’d like to share with you is the concept that we’re using in our business. It’s a concept we call “GRIT.” It stands for “Generosity, Respect, Integrity, and Truth.” </div>
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Those are the core of what it takes for authenticity as a human being. These things drive human relationships. GRIT happens to work well because the American way is toughness. That speaks to so many people! </div>
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I’m writing a book which is half done right now and the working title is something relative to “Getting your GRIT together.” It’s about creating a workplace that people want to be at! We want to spread the word! </div>
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We take everything that we do experientially and we change that to fit into different organizations. We do not change the flow of the material, but we do change the language and some of the activities involved. Remember, I consider myself a messenger, or a translator. I tailor the information to connect with accountants, lawyers, or construction people! </div>
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A lot of training companies will specialize in an industry, but we don’t do that. We’re specialists in people. That is our philosophy. The Four Agreements is one differentiator and customizing our message across industry is definitely unique in our marketplace. The real impact you need to make in an organization is on an individual level. We help people see what’s in it for them. </div>
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The best part about this stuff to me is that you’re never going to master it. We’re constantly learning, so the more we can lighten up and have fun with it, the better off we’re going to be! Fun is a core value of mine! </div>
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NOTABLE and NEWSWORTHYhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12124005321873558462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1026930076996575988.post-66233529350353840412009-12-07T17:18:00.005-05:002009-12-07T21:34:48.499-05:00Networking: Cultivation of Opportunity<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhBv9DZ1EofeztRn1BWFVetuXus9WPeAKlT9NAbAcYJ7AFAiI7JJSZRrpFFYmt7DxpHBJQECSmKTEUArFnhfPVo3P3piEzJMsvQP268wJcQ4Kxx3S51vPdCCxdwzRPqkHXVgRKyyhuBLdI/s1600-h/Denyel+Beiter.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 147px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhBv9DZ1EofeztRn1BWFVetuXus9WPeAKlT9NAbAcYJ7AFAiI7JJSZRrpFFYmt7DxpHBJQECSmKTEUArFnhfPVo3P3piEzJMsvQP268wJcQ4Kxx3S51vPdCCxdwzRPqkHXVgRKyyhuBLdI/s320/Denyel+Beiter.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5412685993852012834" /></a><br />By: Denyel Beiter<div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" font-style: italic; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 5px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 5px; font-family:'Trebuchet MS', Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif;font-size:13px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;">Editors Note: Denyel Beiter is a 2009 SUNY Geneseo graduate. She is currently employed at the True Community Development Corporation in Buffalo as the Americorps Vista. She was the president of Democracy Matters at SUNY Geneseo.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'Trebuchet MS', Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif;font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 5px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 5px;font-size:13px;"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"><br /></span></i></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'Trebuchet MS', Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif;font-size:100%;color:#567A26;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 5px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 5px;font-size:13px;"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;">One of the most important characteristics that we each possess as part of the human race is the ability to connect with each other on an intimate level.</span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;">This is what separates us from the rest of the animal kingdom. The ability to build relationships and to feel united with one another allows us to feel bigger than ourselves, to feel like a part of something, and most importantly, it allows us to be shaped and molded into someone we never dreamed we could be.<br /><br />One of the most important lessons I have learned in the first few months of my career is the significance and impact of networking. By networking and establishing relationships, we find a little of ourselves in others. We can rely upon these relationships as steps to different opportunities in our personal and professional lives.</span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;">This is not to suggest that we use each other solely for our own benefit, but to merely extract and reciprocate goodwill and community.<br /><br />As I write this article I think of this past week when I had an epiphany about the significance of networking. I work in a non-profit organization in inner-city </span><st1:city st="on"><st1:place st="on"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;">Buffalo</span></st1:place></st1:city><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"> where I help to run a job readiness program. A major component to the program is teaching the importance of networking. One young man in particular, who comes from a low income neighborhood, has been in and out of jail, and is unemployed, took advantage of a networking opportunity right away.</span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;">After telling him my experience with working on job readiness initiatives and skills, he became wild eyed and set up an appointment with me so that I could council him on writing his very first resume.<br /><br />He came into the office on time and ready to work.</span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;">We worked together and collaborated ideas and information that needed to get across to an employer. I taught him the basic structure and detailed tips of a resume. He taught me that by helping others and building relationships we can truly change lives. He began to cry, hug me, and tell me that he could not believe that someone would help him and take the time to care for him.</span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;">His eyes widened and he said, “Now I have an opportunity.</span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;">Now I have a future.”</span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"> </span></span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'Times New Roman', serif;font-size:130%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:16px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"><br /></span></span></span></div><div><span style="font-family:'Times New Roman', serif;font-size:12pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;">Author and public speaker, Bob Burg describes networking as “the cultivating of mutually beneficial, give and take, win-win relationships. It works best, however, when emphasizing the 'give' part." </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'Times New Roman', serif;font-size:130%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:16px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"><br /></span></span></span></div><div><span style="font-family:'Times New Roman', serif;font-size:12pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;">I challenge all readers to keep networking.</span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;">Whether it is for personal or professional reasons, we are human and we are here to interact, encourage, and motivate each other.</span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;">When we collaborate, our ideas and output can transcend expectations and goals. We all have gifts to share as well as room for improvement.</span></span></div></span></i></span></span></div>NOTABLE and NEWSWORTHYhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12124005321873558462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1026930076996575988.post-90999080540851932852009-06-01T07:18:00.002-05:002009-06-01T07:41:44.530-05:00Jennifer Sertl<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjuAel643W_PIgGe4mRVFepS2nnGoOVaXBHow6D4PpcM_XYOA3xY-2KMl8f9zrU5zQZRKGUVP324Z-WYCNJ30N8YUuIFtK9SMlD6pvu7TSHtE4E3y30ciOGM4B-WZcleaQ7drv2WJMDkBs/s1600-h/Jenn+Sertl.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 227px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjuAel643W_PIgGe4mRVFepS2nnGoOVaXBHow6D4PpcM_XYOA3xY-2KMl8f9zrU5zQZRKGUVP324Z-WYCNJ30N8YUuIFtK9SMlD6pvu7TSHtE4E3y30ciOGM4B-WZcleaQ7drv2WJMDkBs/s320/Jenn+Sertl.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5342338306343865154" border="0" /></a><br /><div style="display: inline;" id="pastedDivNode"><span style="font-style: italic;">Jennifer Sertl is an executive coach based in Rochester NY. She has had a big impact on our publication, not only in coaching Joseph but also in suggesting that we put the Impact in VIP. Her thoughts inspire both of us and certainly will get you thinking, and hopefully acting, whether you are a CEO, out of work or anywhere in between. Especially poignant to me are her thoughts on battling the recession found near the end of the piece. There is some great content here from our conversation. Check it out! - Ben & Joseph</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Early Influences</span><br /><br />People with challenging early lives have been given a gift. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Whatever you survive is your greatest gift to the world.</span> My mother is schizophrenic. She was hospitalized for the first decade of my life. I became conscious of it when I was eight and remember spending time playing ping pong and drinking chocolate milk with crazy people every weekend when visiting her. In retrospect, I realized at that time that reality does not lie outside of us. Every person experiences reality. I got really good at putting my reality aside and taking on the reality of those in the hospital. I would be able to get in and out of character very fast.<br /><br />My most embarrassing moment was when I saw my mother on a bus when I was in college and I did not acknowledge her. I was going to the University of Colorodo in Boulder and people did not know anything about me other than that I was somewhat attractive and very smart. Being smart was very important to me. If people could see me as sane then they would not know I lived with insanity. I now feel physically embarrassed that my mother was living on the streets and that I was more concerned about me than her.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Clarity</span><br /><br />I started out studying psychology and realized I did not enjoy the chemistry classes. So I went and studied existential philosophy and English. When I was 19 I read Immanuel Kant’s <span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">Groundwork of the Metaphysics of Morals.</span> There was a statement that stuck with me; <span style="font-weight: bold;">“We have an imperfect but positive duty to seek our own perfection and happiness of other people.”</span> That was the bible to me. All of a sudden I had my true north. I started making judgments if I would do something based upon whether it impacts my perfection or increases the happiness of another person. If the answer was no, then I would let it go.<br /><br />It was lovely to have clarity on how to make choices at age 19.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Love and Early Career</span><br /><br />I fell in love with a competitive ski racer. We went to Oregon to the Mount Hood Ski Academy. I taught English and he was a Ski Instructor. For two years of our life we lived in Portland Oregon.<br /><br />We moved here to Rochester, New York in 1994. At that time we were living at my husband’s family’s house. The economic situation was like it is today. I had trouble getting a job and ended up working for a temp agency doing long distance phone service from 7pm to midnight. I noticed that I did not like how I was treated as a phone rep. I was probably not the only one who was smart and just collecting a paycheck and was treated like a monkey. However, I was very excited to be working.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Bigger, Better Things</span><br /><br />It was very clear to me during my childhood who had the power. It was a survival strategy that I developed early on. I learned the rules of engagement at my job and within three years I was part of the management team of a two hundred person call center. <span style="font-weight: bold;">I knew that the only way to fight the system was to be excellent in the system and then to be asked, “How did you do it?”</span> I don’t do anything but perform, and with my performance let people become curious. Then I teach.<br /><br />Then I went to Blue Cross Blue Shield and was a staff development coordinator for 1,000 employees. I helped design core competency models which are used to design hiring and firing. If you don’t hire and fire people for the culture that you want to create then you will have to constantly retrain and will not have the culture that you desire. You need to hire and fire people through the same filter. The culture is to the employee what the brand is to the customer.<br /><br />I realized that I would be pigeon holed as an HR executive if I stayed where I was. Companies are still doing HR for legal reasons and not strategic reasons, which is pretty sad. This is not where the power is. I wanted to be where the power source was. So, I quit to start my own business.<br /><br />The first business I had was <span style="font-weight: bold;">Customer Service Alliance.</span> We did employee and customer service satisfaction surveys and strategic intent. I then joined the group called TECH, now called VISTAGE, which runs CEO roundtables. I joined to become more sophisticated in my consulting design, and became a chair of it. This was great because I had an imagination that it would be great to work with CEOs. I saw them as having great intelligence and elegance.<br /><br /> I ended up running CEO roundtables for five years. The CEOs would spend a full day once a month with me all together and then two hours individually. They paid $3,000 a year for the network and whole experience. Part of me was disillusioned, but also excited by the experience when I realized that they are just human beings and they come with the same ethical dilemmas, crises, deficits and gifts as anyone else.<br /><br />My greatest gift is holding people accountable. <span style="font-weight: bold;">It is amazing to see how so few people hold others accountable at higher levels.</span> Two years ago I chose to change my company to Agility 3R (Resilience, Responsiveness, and Reflection). I am doing more executive coaching and with a co author in Israel I wrote the book <span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">Strategy, Leadership and the Soul.</span> It is about how you create designs and brand from the inside out. It is a book about accountability. We finished it in December of 2008 and are now working on having it published. Things take time so you have to be patient.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Impact and Presence</span><br /><br />I have chosen to be impactful. I deliberately chose a practice of impact. When you are that kind of person, wherever you go you are a magnet. I met my co author Koby Huberman when I was invited to a conference in Nice, France. My talk was entitled <span style="font-weight: bold;">"If you want to change the world, change your life.</span>" I also met Peter Collins who started the Global Business Network and is the editor for Doubleday Books.<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Why did I mention that?</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Because, it is usually when you have no agenda that you create deep relationships that will make a big impact in your life.</span> I get really sad and scared when I see so much mechanistic sales and networking going on. I have been lucky enough and have had enough intent to connect with people at a world class level. The game I am playing is <span style="font-weight: bold;">presence</span>, to really kick the ball that is in front of you. You need to be able to kick it with elegance and with design.<br /><br />I ask people, “What is your DNA?” If we can watch Cold Case and actually find out who is involved in a murder then <span style="font-weight: bold;">we must conclude that we leave an imprint wherever we go. The question is, “What imprint are you leaving?”</span> My invitation is that you shape it and name it. What is your experience and what is the experience of those who are with you? When are you the most pleased and proud and honored? Take that answer and ask if every day you are living up to it. Mine are wisdom, grace and impact. So for the last three years I have analyzed my actions in that framework, in that “brand.” I am giving others access to my brand experience and have to be very careful about who touches it and how.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">What are your long term goals?</span><br /><br />I feel complete with everyone in my life. Before I die I would like to see the book published. If I were to die today the only thing that would make me sad is that the book is not out there. In terms of my goals, I want to get more able to live up to my own expectations of myself. Also, I would like to touch one million people before I die as a coach, presenter or through the book.<br /><br />I am hoping to start leveraging Skype. I think we as adults learn best through peer learning. I would like to create a Skype environment with 16 people from 16 countries and spin off leadership academies. This would be a global leadership academy. Leadership is an ongoing process and it takes a lifetime to master it.<br /><br />I would be proud to be invited to the Economic World Forum or to TED Talks.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Where the Recession Came From: Low Curiosity</span><br /><br />I do not have an MBA. I have no intention of getting one. There was an article in the Wall Street Journal pondering how people who are so educated could have created such a crisis. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Often, when you are educated, you become a bit arrogant. </span><br /><br />My husband is a competitive bass fisherman. He places really well in big lakes but not in lakes like Canandaigua where he learned how to fish. Our interpretation of this is that when you are familiar, you go by memory, you go by the past, and you don’t pay attention to the current situation. <span style="font-weight: bold;">When you have a curious mind, you have presence and you make wise decisions.</span> People get educated and they often lose caution. You need to live on a level of “I don’t know” at all times. There is an element of caution that will allow you greater access.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Planning your Life</span><br /><br />I have this concept called 200 watts. You have 200 watts a month and can use it wherever you want. I look at things in 90 day blocks and build capacity in for learning, strategy and for presence. Input is to put more information in. Strategy is when I need to make decisions. 15% of my time is input, 15% of my time is strategy by design. The rest I commit to presence. Companies that I work with have that type of approach as well.<br /><br />If you are only spending 8% of your time with your customer and 2% of your time creating, you are making a mistake. You should spend 30% of your time with your customer and 20% of your time looking at how you can change what you do. The rest of your time is spent on your delivery mechanism.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">How to build a close community inside of an organization</span><br /><br />Our brains are hardwired to need adrenaline in batches. Without it, we would be catatonic. When companies have an enemy outside of the business, the alignment process accelerates because their adrenaline has a clear target. Companies that are having trouble with solvency are not cat fighting. They are pulling it together inside because there is a real threat on the outside. Leaders who understand the physiology of behavior can design outlets for that behavior. <span style="font-weight: bold;">The enemy will be inside without having an enemy on the outside. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Please define customer focus for us</span>.<br /><br />Normal painters or construction builders will build a facility. They will never leave a document that would have a swab and paint number and additional door knobs with a knob number to make it easier on the home buyer. Think about who you are serving and understand every other aspect of their lifestyle. Then you can design your business from their perspective around what would be valuable to your customer. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Customer service</span> is having it done on time and making sure there are no cigarettes butts in the parking lot. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Customer focus</span> is anticipating issues. It is being proactive instead of reactive. If you travel to a different country you see how well you are treated. People will Google me before I arrive... in a hotel that I am only staying in for one night.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">*Recession Advice*</span><br /><br />I went to a job fair recently and my heart went out to them because I saw that these people were not prepared for the challenges ahead of them. As a generation X person, I never felt I was working for someone. I always felt that I was working WITH someone as long as there was reciprocal value. I grew up in an age when people were free agents looking for a place that provided reciprocal value in money or in learning. There was a symbiotic relationship. Those people who have agility have found a way to continue to create value, or have found where the power was in order to continue to stay safe.<br /><br />Those who have been laid off did not create value for those in power or were unable to create a new job where they were able to create value. <span style="font-weight: bold;">They need to take responsibility right now.</span> This happened to them because they did not make wise choices. They missed a game change and were not able to play. One must make sure to not continue to play the same game they have been playing but just harder, because the rules have changed. It is a different game. Own that you do not understand it and that you need to get some help.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Be with people who are thriving.</span> You have no time to be around people who are not thriving, because it brings you down. You can let your muscles know that there is hope. A coach said to me a while back <span style="font-weight: bold;">to make sure that you are the lowest IQ of the ten people that you most spend time with.</span> Too many people are the highest number.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Actionable right now:</span> Make sure you are developing three skills at all times. One is related to your core current practice. Second is a macro environmental skill, as an example: Systems thinking. The third skill is leadership or personal knowledge. Rate your development of these skills on a scale of one to ten.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Final Thoughts</span><br /><br />You two have shown what is possible in creating connectivity. The reader’s job is to take what you have given and create innovative ways of creating value for their network and using it towards their goals.<br /><br /><div style="display: inline;" id="pastedDivNode">Jenn can be reached by email at: <span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">jsertl@rochester.rr.com</span><br />Her writing can be found at: <a href="http://agility3r.com/blog/" linktype="link" track="on">http://agility3r.com/blog/</a><br /></div><br /></div>NOTABLE and NEWSWORTHYhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12124005321873558462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1026930076996575988.post-86480857963165648682009-05-21T23:43:00.001-05:002012-10-29T21:25:58.458-05:00Lance Armstrong: Still inspirational after the doping scandal<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjvh7NyeObvSZl4vTym-6yCbeRe2QxjotNhi4AlRtGHR7MGYPvg7YXhD0JJMwuElftIXG1Ak2UtCkSEb8-tV8FhSZRvZ_o2sjkrI5VqteAZCCXBIMio61Bs2CuzUD76FQp8ep8hzEw3bpA/s1600-h/Lance+Armstrong.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5338504639506181954" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjvh7NyeObvSZl4vTym-6yCbeRe2QxjotNhi4AlRtGHR7MGYPvg7YXhD0JJMwuElftIXG1Ak2UtCkSEb8-tV8FhSZRvZ_o2sjkrI5VqteAZCCXBIMio61Bs2CuzUD76FQp8ep8hzEw3bpA/s320/Lance+Armstrong.jpg" style="cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 320px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 225px;" /></a><br />
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<span style="font-style: italic;">“I grew up a boyhood fan of Lance Armstrong. My first encounter with the man was on July 26th, 1999, the day after he won his first Tour de France. It didn’t mean much to me at the time as I was only 13, but the image of him with his arms pumped in the air on the front page of the Press & Sun Bulletin, my local newspaper, made a lasting impression on me. </span> <span style="font-style: italic;"> </span> <span style="font-style: italic;"> At the time I was just starting to get into running - the sport I would eventually compete in for the next 10 years of my life - and I was in search of meaning. It took a few more years to dig up why I fell in love with running, but a key tenant of my passion came from following Lance Armstrong. Nobody bikes over 2,000 miles in a three week span through the hills of France without a purpose. </span> <span style="font-style: italic;"> </span> <span style="font-style: italic;"> After reading his autobiography, “It’s Not About the Bike: My Journey Back to Life,” written with Sally Jenkins, I realized the truth behind this man’s story. He grew up in a single family household adopting the “man of the house” role early on. As a triathlete during his high school years he would bike 20 miles to a morning swim practice, go to school, have an afternoon swim practice, and then bike 20 miles home. After shocking the fields of major triathlons at only fifteen years old, Lance turned to cycling. </span> <span style="font-style: italic;"> </span> <span style="font-style: italic;"> He climbed the ladder fast and at age 21 won the world championship in Oslo, screaming as he made his high powered attacks and showboating as he crossed the line. But, the real trial of his life came when Lance was diagnosed with the highest degree of testicular cancer, which spread through his lungs and into his brain. He devoted his entire life at that point to researching and conquering the cancer with knowledge and a positive attitude. </span> <span style="font-style: italic;"> </span> <span style="font-style: italic;"> Lance suffered through more pain than most of us could ever imagine as the toxins of the chemotherapy ate away at his body. But he never gave up, he never lost hope, and he fought with everything he had - mind and body. After a long year of treatment he defeated the cancer.</span> <span style="font-style: italic;"> </span> <span style="font-style: italic;"> Lance fought his cancer with the same passion he has competed with. He has a heart that never gives up and this has lead him to win an all time cycling record, seven (7) Tour de France races in a row, before retiring. </span> <span style="font-style: italic;"> </span> <span style="font-style: italic;"> We can learn much about how to live life by observing and appreciating an individual like Lance Armstrong who continues to live his own life with such passion.” -Joseph Norman</span><br />
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UPDATE: Fresh video after the doping (performance enhancing drugs) scandal. Lance Armstrong is still inspirational in my eyes. Comment, thumbs up, & subscribe to the YouTube channel for current videos!<br />
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This article also appears on my new blog here:<br />
<a href="http://www.empowernetwork.com/normanized/blog/doping-scandal-tribute-to-lance-armstrong/">http://www.empowernetwork.com/normanized/blog/doping-scandal-tribute-to-lance-armstrong/</a><br />
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The following are some excerpts from his book, “It’s Not About the Bike:”<br />
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“Then Nichols stunned me: he said that he would like to tailor my treatment to get me back on the bike. That was the one thing no doctor besides Scott Wolff had said to me. Not one. I was so taken aback that at first I didn’t trust what he was saying. The trip to Houston had so deflated me, particularly the description of the rigors of treatment and the extreme measures it would take to save me. My highest priority was survival. “Just help me live,” I said.” (104)<br />
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“Maybe I needed to tell myself I was still a rider, not just a cancer patient, no matter how weak I had become. If nothing else, it was my way of countering the disease and regaining the control it had stripped from me. I can still do this, I told myself. I might not be able to do it like I used to, but I can still do it.” (144)<br />
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“I had never embraced my life. I had made something of it, and fought for it, but I had never particularly enjoyed it. “You have this gift,” Kik (Armstrong’s first wife) said. “You can teach me how to really love life, because you’ve been on the brink, and you saw the other side. So you can show me that.” But she showed me. She wanted to see everything, and I was the guy who for to show it to her, and in showing it to her, I saw it for myself.” (169)<br />
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“The truth is, if you asked me to choose between winning the Tour de France and cancer, I would choose cancer. Odd as it sounds, I would rather have the title of cancer survivor than winner of the Tour, because of what it has done for me as a human being, a man, a husband, a son, and a father.” (259)<br />
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“Pain is temporary. It may last a minute, or an hour, or a day, or a year, but eventually it will subside and something else will take its place. If I quit, however, it lasts forever. That surrender, even the smallest act of giving up, stays with me. So when I feel like quitting, I ask myself, which would I rather live with? Facing up to that question, and finding a way to go on, is the real reward, better than any trophy.<br />
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By now you’ve figured out I’m into pain. Why? Because it’s self-revelatory, that’s why. There is a point in every race when a rider encounters his real opponent and understands that it’s himself. In my most painful moments on the bike, I am at my most curious, and I wonder each and every time how I will respond. Will I discover my innermost weakness, or will I seek out my innermost strength? It’s an open-ended question whether or not I will be able to finish the race. You might say pain is my chosen way of exploring the human heart.” (269-270)<br />
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P.S. Here's a link to that video above! <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zMthsq5Kv6o">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zMthsq5Kv6o</a></div>
NOTABLE and NEWSWORTHYhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12124005321873558462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1026930076996575988.post-33409753427261736252009-05-13T20:49:00.005-05:002009-05-13T21:18:24.638-05:00Customer Service<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgPBN6L9dIxV0E1y5JLnMQ1vI6LkRqhQIWJozMc9uhGDY5BiPz4KKbH0aUGK9T3AYKHPlnTkEjwvprAjv-M9adie4eNhH4Fim6FrQIyIj4joN2np5FSAXjxTxEl8IV_Rc6F2OAeLx7oLhs/s1600-h/customer+service.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 227px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgPBN6L9dIxV0E1y5JLnMQ1vI6LkRqhQIWJozMc9uhGDY5BiPz4KKbH0aUGK9T3AYKHPlnTkEjwvprAjv-M9adie4eNhH4Fim6FrQIyIj4joN2np5FSAXjxTxEl8IV_Rc6F2OAeLx7oLhs/s320/customer+service.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5335498257749445906" border="0" /></a><br />By: Joseph Norman<br /><br /><div style="display: inline;" id="pastedDivNode"><span style="font-style: italic;">“The goal as a company is to have customer service that is not just the best, but legendary.” - Sam Walton</span><br /><br />About four months ago a client of the real estate company I co-founded after college, Norwalk Enterprises, said something to my business partner and I on a conference call that was subtle, but absolutely rocked our world. He was in the process of doing a deal with us, purchasing a cash flow rental property in Rochester, when he said, “You know guys, I’m counting on you now.”<br /><br />It took a few days for that to really settle in, but it did.<br /><br />Now, it’s not that we weren’t focused on high quality customer service before then, but there was a definite reality to the situation after we heard our client say that. It hammered home the fact that you’ve got to treat your customers right because they pay your bills and are ultimately, your best salespeople.<br /><br />As Ken Blanchard and Sheldon Bowles discuss in their best-selling book, “Raving Fans,” if you provide legendary service, you will create raving fans.<br /><br />Here are a few things I’ve learned about customer service that might be helpful!<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Under Promise, Over Deliver (UPOD)</span>. Set realistic expectations for your clients that you know you can beat. Then do your best to deliver results that exceed those expectations!<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Be available</span>. If you have a client in crisis mode, answer the phone! Call them back! Communicate with them! It’s as simple as that. Showing you care about their concerns with your actions goes a long way - even if it is just to say, “I got your message. We’ll take care of it on Monday.” That means a lot to a client.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Honesty</span>. The truth is what they need to hear. Even if it isn’t what they want to hear, in the end they’ll respect you more and be more loyal because you told them the truth.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Listen</span>. Above all things you need to listen to what your customers have to say. When you take the time to listen, you learn all of your clients’ insecurities, fears, and inhibitions. In addition, you learn their hopes, dreams, and ambitions. By listening you make your customers feel valued. That is priceless.<br /><br />Not a business owner? These four principles apply to everyday life as well!<br /></div>NOTABLE and NEWSWORTHYhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12124005321873558462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1026930076996575988.post-55043901514333447392009-05-06T00:29:00.002-05:002009-05-06T01:04:55.912-05:00Ryan Rogers<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiwS3mM-DtUOIYMoFUTVWQ796XjXwdLQivMtR5BVBkEdgYAkVd0CBzW1RMrW4PlH6EBRA8I3eBkOFGtdo9yiyu-2UN7qJaLpsFymu8R7g1W5odmwuCNL3hPDSBrhT7205n6DU0uVrei6F0/s1600-h/ryanheadshot.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 147px; height: 187px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiwS3mM-DtUOIYMoFUTVWQ796XjXwdLQivMtR5BVBkEdgYAkVd0CBzW1RMrW4PlH6EBRA8I3eBkOFGtdo9yiyu-2UN7qJaLpsFymu8R7g1W5odmwuCNL3hPDSBrhT7205n6DU0uVrei6F0/s320/ryanheadshot.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5332587948657986226" border="0" /></a><br /><div style="display: inline;" id="pastedDivNode"><span style="font-style: italic;">"I met Ryan a few years ago when my oldest brother first moved to Orlando. At that point he was in the beginning of his transition from mortgage broker to realtor. Since that time he’s developed a successful real estate practice based on some simple principles; listening well, responding quickly and intelligently, and doing the right thing. This has allowed him to serve his clients well and ultimately grow his business substantially...even in one of the most troubled markets of the real estate downturn, Orlando, Florida. It is truly a pleasure to feature some of his thoughts today!" - Joseph Norman</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Being a realtor in one of the markets that was dramatically hit by the real estate downturn, how has that affected your business? And, what are a few of the ways you’ve tried to add value to your clients? </span><br /><br />My biggest advantage with the real estate is my knowledge of the mortgage industry. I worked for a bank for many years, so I have a distinct advantage in helping my clients through the closing process. Where I add a lot of value is helping my clients save money with their mortgages.<br /><br />That’s a big thing. Say you go to a closing and your client is getting charged an extra two points for an origination fee when the interest on the loan is already very high. That’s something you can actually alleviate.<br /><br />I’ve actually been at the closing table before and noticed that my client was being charged an additional 3 points, or 3 percent, up front. I said to them, “You’re not closing.” At that point I told the bank that we wouldn’t close unless they took those points off because I knew the bank was getting 2 points on the backside already. I won’t let a client close if I see something that I wouldn’t accept personally. Or, at least, I give them the option to make a decision either way. As long as they know the consequences, they have the right to make their own decision.<br /><br />A lot of times realtors are treated poorly by the banks because they don’t necessarily know a lot about the mortgage process. I feel that you provide your people a better service if you can bring more knowledge about the transaction to the table. That has helped me get more clients.<br /><br />With my internet advertising, potential clients that call me are talking to at least 3 or 4 realtors. So, my knowledge is a key way I can differentiate myself. And, about 50% of the questions I answer are in regards to mortgages.<br /><br />Also, when I sell a house I actually listen to people. I don’t sell them the house that I want them to buy. I’ll send them a sheet and the first question is, “What is your wish list for a house?” Then I take that and start showing them houses that meet their desires and one they can afford.<br /><br />If I have a client that can afford a $250k house, I’m not going to show them a $350k house because they’ll never want to settle for a $250k place then.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">In terms of Customer Relationship Management (CRM), what are some things you do? </span><br /><br />I have a comprehensive system that I use which funnels clients down into two categories; short term buyers and long term buyers. I consider three to six months a short term buyer. The software I use, called House Values, is a program that helps me automatically send valuable information to clients or potential clients periodically. It’s expensive, but I’ve probably closed about 5 deals from it in the last year.<br /><br />I have actually increased my marketing expenses in the last year to stay competitive in this economy. The leads you get in Orlando real estate are interesting because half of the people I’ve worked with before are stuck in properties that are upside down. I knew I needed to generate more leads, so I’ve taken the necessary actions to do that.<br /><br />You definitely have to spend money right now to make money. I know people that have been in the business for ten or twelve years and they are calling me now to ask me how I’m getting all of my clients. We’re talking people that are closing $7-10 million in business a year.<br /><br />It’s sort of odd to have people at that level asking me those questions. But the marketplace has changed and my systems are working.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">What are some things you’ve done to help you personally handle the current economy? </span><br /><br />In terms of purchasing a house, I bought within my means. I could have afforded a lot more house when I bought, but if I had done that, right now I would be in big trouble.<br /><br />A surprising fact I came across was that the top 1 percent of individuals in this country only make about $388k a year. That’s really not a whole lot of money in comparison. That means many of these people that have bought million dollar homes are actually living paycheck to paycheck.<br /><br />If you’re going to buy a house, you’ve got to get into something that you can logically afford. But, that’s not always easy to do. When I was in the mortgage industry, I would tell people when they couldn’t afford something but they wouldn’t necessarily listen to me. They might even say, “If you don’t do the mortgage for me, I’ll go somewhere else.”<br /><br />Be knowledgeable about what you’re making and be reasonable. Don’t live at an income level that isn’t realistic with what you actually make.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">What are some of your hobbies? </span><br /><br />I do a lot of things. Play a lot of tennis, golf, and softball. I also enjoy a variety of water sports; wakeboarding, jet skiing, etc. It’s important to stay active. It keeps you young!<br /><br />You’ve also got to enjoy what you do. As for my line of work, if you don’t like being with people you shouldn’t be in this business. I meet some realtors that say I don’t like answering the phone. So, I ask them, “Why are you in the business?”<br /><br />You have to run your own business and you have to run it smart. If you need structure and you can’t do it yourself, then this isn’t the business for you. In real estate the best thing you can do is talk to everyone you can. If you’re at the mall and somebody is talking about houses, give them a card. They may never call you, but they also might! You’ve got to take that chance.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">What is your definition of success? </span><br /><br />You know I think it is different for everyone. I don’t think success is measured by money, per se. It’s loving what you do and being able to make a living at it. I think that is really the key.<br /><br />What your perception of living is, is what you make it. If you’re in real estate and you make $50k per year and you’re happy - it fits your income level and pays your bills - then you probably feel successful.<br /><br />I must say, I have a lot of freedom in my job so I can do a lot of things. And, I make a very good income in respect to a normal job. I don’t have to answer to anyone as I’m my own boss. If you look at cost per hour what I make, I do very well. But, I also have to be available.<br /><br />I may take a call at 9:30 PM on a Friday, because I’d rather have a client get an answer from me immediately then have to wait a few days. That’s another key for me. If I get a call on a Saturday and a client is freaking out, some people might not respond until Monday. But, if you let them wait until Monday morning to get them an answer, then you have probably shot their whole weekend if they’re a stressful person.<br /><br />In this business, you have to answer the phone. That has to come first. All your other free time is what you want to make of it!<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Final thoughts? </span><br /><br />It is what it is. You’ve just got to keep going. If you’re self-employed like I am, you’ve got to figure out a way to do it and just do it.<br /><br />Ryan can be reached by email at RyanRogersRealty@gmail.com.<br /><div> </div></div>NOTABLE and NEWSWORTHYhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12124005321873558462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1026930076996575988.post-33617044849588949252009-04-28T23:39:00.002-05:002009-04-28T23:43:33.503-05:00Patience, Persistence, & Self-Belief<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiaWqBakzoNztKe_-uKgnnm9FEBXui-Uf_V_m9b2v1yZHuFv_0Hw_joXC9BMz7e_qNrPQ-HPkdXbdlYv-_l1GMMn1mslwBy3_V73vBglZS4HZddCUw_NkF2-4GrgwHwV-yJoXlefqPbqis/s1600-h/NHS.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 286px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiaWqBakzoNztKe_-uKgnnm9FEBXui-Uf_V_m9b2v1yZHuFv_0Hw_joXC9BMz7e_qNrPQ-HPkdXbdlYv-_l1GMMn1mslwBy3_V73vBglZS4HZddCUw_NkF2-4GrgwHwV-yJoXlefqPbqis/s320/NHS.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5329969390480408594" border="0" /></a><br />By: Joseph Norman<br /><br /><div style="display: inline;" id="pastedDivNode">Last week I had the humbling and exciting opportunity of delivering a keynote address at the National Honor Society Induction Ceremony at my alma mater, Windsor Central High School.<br /><br />As I was preparing my message for the speech over the last month, I struggled with getting clarity on what I was going to say. I knew I wanted it to be original and authentic...coming from where I am today; a young entrepreneur working on a dream.<br /><br />So, courtesy of a recent VIP, John Engels, I told the audience I wasn’t fit to give them any advice about how they should live their lives. (Click here for John's profile) Instead, I shared with them the three most real things in my life right now.<br /><br />I said, “Whatever you want to do with your life, whoever you desire to become, whatever career or personal endeavor you long to succeed in, I want you to know this. You can get there - I really believe that - but you will be tested in at least these three ways; <span style="font-style: italic;">Your capacity to be patient</span>, <span style="font-style: italic;">your courage to persist</span>, and,arguably the most important, <span style="font-style: italic;">your belief in yourself</span>.”<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">You’ve got to be patient</span>. Real fulfilling success doesn’t come instantly. It takes time to make big things happen and I’ve learned that it’s important to recognize that in the beginning as you’ll be more apt to set realistic expectations.<br /><br />As for my message in regards to you, I’m making an assumption that in some form or another, you do have goals for yourself - whether you write them on paper or just have them in your head. First, I challenge you to write them down and second it’s important to remember that accomplishing those goals and finding your own success takes time.<br /><br />In some cases it can come about very fast, but more often than not, it’s going to test your patience.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">You’ve got to be persistent.</span> People aren’t going to call you back. You’re going to get beaten down. You’re going to want to give up. You’re going to want to walk away. But, if what you want to accomplish really means something to you...then you can’t.<br /><br />Since I graduated from college I’ve faced some trials. I’ve been humbled by the realization that you don’t know what you don’t know. I’ve dealt with the emotional stress of not being able to pay my monthly bills at a few different times. And, I’ve struggled with the absolute mental mess associated with knowing I could get a day job and stop that pain but I choose not too because of a belief in something bigger for myself.<br /><br />This lifestyle I lead is not for the faint of heart. But the truth is we can all help ourselves by being persistent. Sir Winston Churchill once said, “If you’re going through hell, keep going.” It’s as simple as that...just keep going.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">You’ve got to believe in yourself</span>. When you’re out there striving for some of your own big, meaty goals, people you’ve trusted and admired your entire life are going to doubt you. Tonight, I’m here to tell you that you don’t have to listen to them. How could they possibly know what’s best for you? Only you know what is best for you.<br /><br />If you want to be a great engineer, you can be. If you want to be a respected mechanic or craftsman, you can be. And, if you want to be a fantastic teacher or business person, you absolutely can be.<br /> <br />But, first you’ve got to empower yourself and believe you can.<br /><br />So, remember to be patient. It’s going to take time to accomplish your goals. Recognize that and don’t give up. Be persistent. Even people you trust and admire will try to hold you back and bring you down, but at the end of the day, you control your own destiny. So, believe in it. Believe in yourself. If you believe it, you can achieve it. You hold the power to create your own wildly successful life. Use it.</div>NOTABLE and NEWSWORTHYhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12124005321873558462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1026930076996575988.post-83657620910083106302009-04-21T22:39:00.001-05:002009-04-21T22:40:42.762-05:00Quote Lovers<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhg_lpKgBEgIHnAmq2btoRrQK9BH71uVpBJxSFv8SM1r3v_K4NKyB74XZJx1NW8K69Sd_YpdB18jMzdmCjhbeMgC1JHeg1sh6iFxTklZRs8yP4olXdPWbF4N2rq6aYi73zTXZZWnHVqpGA/s1600-h/Perseverance.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 250px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhg_lpKgBEgIHnAmq2btoRrQK9BH71uVpBJxSFv8SM1r3v_K4NKyB74XZJx1NW8K69Sd_YpdB18jMzdmCjhbeMgC1JHeg1sh6iFxTklZRs8yP4olXdPWbF4N2rq6aYi73zTXZZWnHVqpGA/s320/Perseverance.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5327355571062272690" border="0" /></a><br /><div style="display: inline;" id="pastedDivNode"><span>Sometimes you just need a good quote to get you back on the right track. Here are a few that might help!<br /></span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs even though checkered by failure, than to rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy nor suffer much because they live in the gray twilight that knows neither victory nor defeat.</span> - Theodore Roosevelt<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Reading is no substitute for action.</span> - Colleen Wainwright<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">The only way to have a friend is to be one.</span> - Ralph Waldo Emerson<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">You can avoid reality, but you cannot avoid the consequences of avoiding reality</span>. - Ayn Rand<br /><br />I find that the harder I work, the more luck I seem to have. - Thomas Jefferson<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Do, or do not. There is no 'try'.</span> - Yoda<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">If you are going through hell, keep going.</span> - Sir Winston Churchill<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">If you can count your money, you don't have a billion dollars.</span> - J. Paul Getty<br /><br />It's kind of fun to do the impossible. - Walt Disney<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good.</span> - Samuel Johnson<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">A clever man commits no minor blunders.</span> - Goethe<br /><br />I have often regretted my speech, never my silence. - Xenocrates<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">When I am working on a problem I never think about beauty. I only think about how to solve the problem. But when I have finished, if the solution is not beautiful, I know it is wrong.</span> - Buckminster Fuller<br /><br />He who hesitates is a damned fool. - Mae West<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Well done is better than well said.</span> - Benjamin Franklin<br /><br />A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty. - Sir Winston Churchill<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Whatever is begun in anger ends in shame.</span> - Benjamin Franklin<br /><br />The truth is more important then the facts. Frank Lloyd Wright<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.</span> - Albert Einstein</div>NOTABLE and NEWSWORTHYhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12124005321873558462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1026930076996575988.post-16444033783460579972009-04-15T01:40:00.002-05:002009-04-15T01:47:02.098-05:00Ray Major<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUVkKrF0XuoEbPEcpCmdI4nNJbrv_QQV8VjI_UnJ7VxgiaNyhxHVw8YPZeoaY1ReiU8YtMEhkqrXZuUVasTZZBBh6SWNt4KV_SbnjwjQ6nLiMisNjeBn6kTasECQjZM-OwkP1DdwKp4ws/s1600-h/Ray+Major.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 143px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUVkKrF0XuoEbPEcpCmdI4nNJbrv_QQV8VjI_UnJ7VxgiaNyhxHVw8YPZeoaY1ReiU8YtMEhkqrXZuUVasTZZBBh6SWNt4KV_SbnjwjQ6nLiMisNjeBn6kTasECQjZM-OwkP1DdwKp4ws/s320/Ray+Major.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5324806015551843218" border="0" /></a><br /><span><span style="font-style: italic;"><div style="display: inline;" id="pastedDivNode">I met Ray during my high school years at the Windsor Central School District when he was teaching and coaching and I was competing in cross country and track and field. As is often the case, I didn’t fully appreciate his tremendous sense of humor and everything he had to say until after I moved away. Although he now lives in Texas, we have remained good friends and I consider him an absolutely remarkable man. Ray has two distinct passions in his life; education and lifetime fitness. Currently, he teaches Physical Education and Health at an elementary school in the Plainview Independent School District in Plainview, Texas. Enjoy his thoughts! - Joseph Norman<br /><br /><div style="display: inline;" id="pastedDivNode"><span style="font-weight: bold;">In the classroom today, what are a few things that you try to pass on to your students? </span><br /><br />The number one thing in my classroom is that everyone has value and everyone deserves to experience some kind of success. And, I tell them that. I really believe that we all have different abilities and we all have strengths. Even though we have weaknesses, we all have strengths too and that is what we should focus on.<br /><br />I’ve even pushed this farther by teaching my students and athletes that you have to have a love for it. You have to enjoy it. If you aren’t doing something for you, then maybe you aren’t doing it for the right reasons. It’s that extensive. I take it from my coaching right down to the elementary level where I now teach.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">What got you into education?<br /><br /></span>Gary Vail was my PE teacher in the mid to late 70s. I wasn’t a very athletic kid, I didn’t play other sports well, and I was always one of the last people picked. But I just admired the way he did things. He would post the win-loss records of all the classes in the locker room and I thought that was impressive. So, 1) I’ve got this teacher that I absolutely admire, and, 2) I’m not a very athletic kid so I’m not really getting the playing time in PE that I probably could have. From that time I was thinking about going into Phys. Ed. for education.<br /><br /> Now, as for my running, I got my origins from a man named Gerry O’Donnell. I always admired him because even in his late 40s he was still running with us. And, he always believed in me. I didn’t make it to the state meet but he took me with him. He wrote me a really nice letter at graduation. And, I think that is where my love of running started.<br /><br /> At that time running was a little more extrinsic and just for the rewards. Now it is more intrinsic, but at that time I had things I wanted to accomplish with my running. That’s what kept me running back then. <span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><br />Why physical education?<br /><br /></span>I was always the one that organized the pick up games when I was a kid. I even kept stats during the games. If my brother ran the ball, I would step it off and mark up a piece of paper that he just got five yards. Who does that? My old friends still joke about it.<br /><br /> And, I was the type of kid that could never sit still. I was constantly moving. My grade school years I got in trouble because I could never sit still.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">As I recall, almost everyday you eat lunch with students. Tell me a little bit about this habit of yours...</span><br /><br />The number one reason I do it is for the pure enjoyment of seeing the kids get excited and looking forward to something. And, the second thing is a bit selfish, but it is the fact that I get to be with a small group. It might be two kids or it might be twelve, but just the pleasure I get from having a small group at some point during the day is a wonderful reward for me because I usually have classes of 40 or so.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">What keeps you running? </span><br /><br />Early on my running was more extrinsic. You go to a road race and win a trophy or something. But, collegiately the value came more from the opportunity to travel and enjoy the camaraderie with my teammates. After that it really got to the physiological high that you get from the runs. Quite simply it became an addiction. Now it is more of a stress reliever and social thing. There is still the love for running even though the obstacles of old age and angry joints are there. So, where I’m at now is just enjoying the connection with nature.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">EDITOR’S NOTE:</span> <span style="font-style: italic;">Ray is known for his rhymes. This is the beginning of a recent rendition he gave to his parents at parent-teacher conference night in Plainview.</span><br /><br />Health and fitness is important all the time<br />That’s why I wrote the following rhyme<br />I was watching CNN<br />I think it was around ten<br />The news was about a flight attendant who made up a rap<br />Because during a safety debriefing, the passengers sat their like saps<br />I figured if he can do it on a plane<br />I can talk about how activity stimulates the brain<br />We don’t have to make fitness a whole lot harder<br />Even a little bit will make you smarter<br />You see fitness helps pump blood easier to the mind<br />This can help you solve problems of many kinds<br />It doesn’t matter the activity that you do<br />Grab a partner if it will help you<br />Baseball, basketball, even soccer<br />Get those sneakers out of the locker<br />If you golf, don’t use a cart<br />Walking the course is better for your heart...<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Final thoughts? </span><br /><br />I don’t know if this directly applies, but I feel like it might. My mother died just recently on April 3. Not my step mother, but my real one. And, that is the first parent I’ve lost. It has kind of set me back but it has also helped me realize that you’ve got to be grateful for what you have while you’re here.<br /><br />When I get that over-ambition to do more and train more, I try to remember now and then that it’s okay to step back and just enjoy it. Sometimes we all need that gentle reminder that it’s best to take time and appreciate what you have rather than just rush through life.<br /><br />Ray can be reached by email at: RPMmajor@yahoo.com<br /></div><br /></div></span></span>NOTABLE and NEWSWORTHYhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12124005321873558462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1026930076996575988.post-487644455719582712009-04-07T08:50:00.002-05:002009-04-07T08:53:22.876-05:00BB&T Corp & Principled Leadership<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUC01llxCyYQam6jtFe2FKl-K_80luZ0pChvYSNuefEJ_97bRyD-ftPCvk8Mct3m5ZdkBjmmMCLzwA58DlodatK0jjkAazXUuWekzfZbEtI2rajFUz47WBNaJhhQUGxaqF9EwXZWpiw2M/s1600-h/BB&T+-+John+Allison.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 225px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUC01llxCyYQam6jtFe2FKl-K_80luZ0pChvYSNuefEJ_97bRyD-ftPCvk8Mct3m5ZdkBjmmMCLzwA58DlodatK0jjkAazXUuWekzfZbEtI2rajFUz47WBNaJhhQUGxaqF9EwXZWpiw2M/s320/BB&T+-+John+Allison.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5321947199638940066" border="0" /></a><br />By: Joseph Norman<br /><br /><div style="display: inline;" id="pastedDivNode"><span style="font-style: italic;">“Excellence is an art won by training and habituation. We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then is not an act, but a habit.”</span> - Aristotle<br /><br />Recently, I had the opportunity to listen to John Allison, Chairman of BB & T Corporation, deliver a talk about Principled Leadership at the University of Central Florida. Essentially he walked through the corporate philosophy at BB & T which he helped develop over the last decade.<br /><br />The truth is that the people that have become truly successful in this world didn’t take shortcuts. They consistently did the right thing even in the face of adversity or lack of support from others. The 10 BB&T Values are a good model of how we can consistently do the right thing in our own lives.<br /><br />Without further adieu:<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Reality (Fact-Based)</span>. What is, is. If we want to be better, we must act within the context of reality (the facts).<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Reason (Objectivity)</span>. We cannot all be geniuses, but each of us can develop the mental habits which ensure that when making decisions we carefully examine the facts and think logically without contradiction in deriving a conclusion.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Independent Thinking</span>. All human progress by definition is based on creativity, because creativity is the source of positive change. Creativity is only possible to an independent thinker. Creativity is not about just doing something different. It is about doing something better.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Productivity</span>. In a long term context and in a free market, the bigger the profit, the better. Healthy profits represent productive work.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Honesty</span>. Being honest is simply being consistent with reality. To be honest does not require that we know everything. Knowledge is always contextual and man is not omniscient. However, we must be responsible for saying what we mean and meaning what we say.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Integrity</span>. Principles provide carefully thought-out concepts which will lead to our long-term success and happiness. We should always act consistently with our principles.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Justice (Fairness)</span>. In evaluating other people, it is critical that we judge based on essentials. Individuals must be judged individually based on their personal merits, not their membership in any group.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Pride</span>. Pride is the psychological reward we earn from living by our values, i.e., from being just, honest, having integrity, being an independent thinker, being productive and rational.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Self-Esteem (Self-Motivation)</span>. A necessary attribute for self-esteem is self-motivation. You receive from your work in proportion to how much you contribute.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Teamwork / Mutual Supportiveness</span>. While independent thought and strong personal goals are critically important, work is often accomplished within teams. Each of us must consistently act to achieve the agreed-upon objectives of the team, with respect for our fellow team members, while acting in a mutually supportive manner.<br /><br />Developing your own set of values is not an easy task, but it is a crucial one! My hope is that some of BB&T’s values resonate with you and help you make your own world a better place. </div>NOTABLE and NEWSWORTHYhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12124005321873558462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1026930076996575988.post-11960826259224864862009-03-25T00:07:00.002-05:002009-03-25T00:08:11.732-05:00Selling Yourself<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdcPPSAC618ik8YSRBLYVCeBtQ0wTOnr5a8fbF5FW_xai6O8vdOIrXT5BKUw2oa4cyeuLfY9aTxj614yJ9JxmwmMq6ztjEJwKpCGbr6EAN_6UhI36lfn17c2U4qgeTqKtZLLFuTGUYiL0/s1600-h/Little+Green+Book.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 222px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdcPPSAC618ik8YSRBLYVCeBtQ0wTOnr5a8fbF5FW_xai6O8vdOIrXT5BKUw2oa4cyeuLfY9aTxj614yJ9JxmwmMq6ztjEJwKpCGbr6EAN_6UhI36lfn17c2U4qgeTqKtZLLFuTGUYiL0/s320/Little+Green+Book.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316987736625930370" border="0" /></a><br />By: Joseph Norman<br /><br /><div style="display: inline;" id="pastedDivNode">"Getting your way is the gateway to getting what you want." - Jeffrey Gitomer<br /><br />With what feels like Armageddon coming every time you watch the news, now is as important a time as ever to learn how to sell yourself and your ideas to others.<br /><br />The truth is during times of great economic distress a large transfer of wealth occurs. With many people losing money, there is actually a large group of people and businesses out there absolutely coining money in this economy. Why? They know that turbulence like this creates opportunity.<br /><br />Now that you know the truth though, it's important to discuss a little bit about how these people take advantage of times like these.<br /><br />They effectively sell themselves and their ideas to the world! It's as simple as that.<br /><br />Jeffrey Gitomer has a fantastic book that I've read a few times now called the Little Green Book of Getting Your Way. I'd like to focus on one particular section directly from his book on persuasion because I think it's valuable to understanding how to make your desires a reality in your own life.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Persuasion is the process...getting your way is the outcome.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic; text-decoration: underline;">Persuasion is a science.</span> You can learn to persuade. You can learn the best ways to persuade in each given situation of your business life, your sales life, and your personal life.<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic; text-decoration: underline;">Persuasion is an art</span>. Never crossing the line to "pushy." It's showing reserve and poise. In short - being cool.<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic; text-decoration: underline;">Persuasion is excellent questioning skills beyond excellent communication skills</span>. It's getting the other person to clarify what you want in their mind. Rather than tell them "This is why that happened..." ask "Why do you think this happened" or "What made this happen?" It's a subtle but powerful difference.<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic; text-decoration: underline;">Persuasion is compromise</span>. Often there is some give and take in order to get to your way.<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic; text-decoration: underline;">Persuasion is asking questions that clarify the situation</span>. Asking for elaboration, understanding, and "why" will lead you to harmony. That harmony will permit open-minded dialogue.<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic; text-decoration: underline;">Persuasion is excellent listening skills</span>. Listening is one of the most difficult elements of persuasion because it requires patience. The two-word secret of patience and listening is NOT "shut up." It's "take notes." Taking notes shows respect and eliminates miscommunication.<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic; text-decoration: underline;">Persuasion is getting the other guy to convince himself</span>. If you question, listen, write it down, and question again for clarification, your answers and your point of view will become obvious.<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic; text-decoration: underline;">Persuasion is preparation</span>. Gathering the right information. Creating the right questions. Uncovering the right hot buttons - and acting on them.<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic; text-decoration: underline;">Persuasion is victory</span>. Persuasion is the science by which you get your way. It's not just getting your way; it's persuading with harmony and getting everyone to agree. It's you getting your way without the other guy feeling like he or she "lost."<br /><br />Why would I simply rip-off and duplicate from Gitomer this week? Because this is some fantastic stuff and if it's not broken, don't fix it!<br /><br />Right now is an incredible opportunity for us in Western New York to look the challenges in the face and discover what we really want out of our lives! But, at that moment of discovery, we are also faced with the ultimate test...getting other people to buy into our dream!<br /><br />I'm doing it right now with my business partner Shaun and our real estate business. You can do it too with your dream! It just takes a little bit of persuasion...</div>NOTABLE and NEWSWORTHYhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12124005321873558462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1026930076996575988.post-68890251175918858592009-03-17T18:22:00.002-05:002009-03-17T18:26:47.349-05:00John Engels<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh2FVpZ5vb73qCYM5X-MvX1remOPisi0L7nqslpann9Lwqtj555eD0AYlXVz7XCYE3M9n7oqXu0VbhgHgkHKHHFvuZ9qEAa3edGpo7N_IY0VyCR_4zR65ISbHwUbs95L_0tMw7XEMJJj_k/s1600-h/John+Engels.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 114px; height: 155px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh2FVpZ5vb73qCYM5X-MvX1remOPisi0L7nqslpann9Lwqtj555eD0AYlXVz7XCYE3M9n7oqXu0VbhgHgkHKHHFvuZ9qEAa3edGpo7N_IY0VyCR_4zR65ISbHwUbs95L_0tMw7XEMJJj_k/s320/John+Engels.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5314302167122547730" border="0" /></a><br /><div style="display: inline;" id="pastedDivNode"><span style="font-style: italic;">John Engels is founder and president of Leadership Coaching, Inc., a leadership consulting firm in Upstate New York, focused on the mentoring and growth of CEOs, presidents, their executive teams and their families. His Advanced Leadership Course for CEOs has been recognized nationally for its depth and practical emphasis on high-level functioning at work and home. He has traveled widely, participating in developing world projects in Bangladesh, Haiti, and Peru. An insatiable curiosity for knowledge and a constant search for depth in life and self are a few key values John brings to his consulting practice. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">Tell us a little bit about how you got started and what put you on the path of wanting to give back in this way.</span><br /><br />I think started is a funny word. Lots of dramatic events happened in my childhood which had an impact on me. I grew up Roman Catholic. So, there was a lot of emphasis in my upbringing on service; concern for the poor and for people that don’t have enough. My parents came from poverty. They had to learn how to survive and they appreciated the small pleasures in life. I got a feel for that early on.<br /><br />Though they were poor, each of my parents had a lot of motivation to succeed and get ahead. They had tasted poverty and they didn’t want to taste it again. I think it was very influential for me. I am the oldest of five, so from that sibling position an expectation was programmed into me that I would be successful. That I would be achievement oriented. It was just in there.<br /><br />I’ve always had an insatiable desire to learn. To look for insight in off-the-beaten-path places, where others aren’t going. I can remember my mother telling us, “Don’t be a conformist!”<br /><br />I’ve looked in very strange places for knowledge and that habit has been very useful for me; bringing a perspective to my clients that is not only different, but in many ways subversive. So, that’s a big competitive advantage. I’m like a sponge. Yes, I have the academic degrees, but that has not stimulated the greatest learning for me. Book knowledge simply readied me for the real learning, which has come in prison visits, wilderness adventures, hospital morgues, villages in developing worlds, and to a large degree, in conversations with my clients.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">What does your business and its delivery system look like?</span><br /><br />People choose to buy an apple based on the skin. Is it shiny? Dull? Red? Yellow? Does it have dimples on it? The skin of the apple is not the meat of the apple. The skin of the apple is not the apple, it is just the cover. Most leaders live in a world where only the superficial elements of leadership are looked at - personality, physical appearance, resume, compensation, etc. My team and I help veteran and high-potential leaders look at the meat of the apple - their emotional maturity, their confidence and skill as coaches to others, the clarity of their thinking and decision-making, and so on. We help leaders know, trust and communicate their substance. That enables them to influence others - both at work and at home - in more meaningful ways.<br /><br />Our business model centers on a course that I founded thirteen years ago, the Advanced Leadership Course. It takes CEOs and other senior level leaders through an eight month process - one full day a month for eight months - teaching the science of leadership and developing them as high functioning mentors. The course is often the beginning of a relationship with Leadership Coaching, Inc. that extends far beyond the eight months. Half of the graduates end up in some sort of long term relationship with me. I offer an annual retreat that about 100 graduates of the Advanced Leadership Course come to every year. And, I feed them...I give them more.<br /><br />My belief is that what ultimately impresses people is the depth, not the skin. That is something to know about life. Don’t just look at the outside and what seems to be. There is more than that going on. I deal all day with people that have made a living out of trying to look good, and to stay comfortable. And, unfortunately for many, that’s where their focus ends. We try to lead leaders in a different direction. For example, we make an effort to help leaders manage and overrule discomfort instead of trying to avoid it. Sometimes, progress is not possible without discomfort, so managing it becomes critical. Leaders who learn how to do this can take the world by storm.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">What advice would you give to the people of Western New York? </span><br /><br />That’s a really easy question to answer because I don’t give advice. I never give advice. Don’t know what’s best for others. It’s challenging enough to figure out what’s best for me. And, that is an important point right there.<br /><br />The last time I was asked that question it was by Mayor Robert Duffy, just before he took office. He invited me to breakfast and asked me for advice. I told him the same thing, “I don’t give advice,” and I could see he was somewhat stunned by my answer. We went on to have a very animated conversation.<br /><br />Everybody seems to have lots of advice for everybody else which is a sign of a toxic and regressive culture. Do I really know what you should be doing? Do I know what that guy over there should be doing? Should I tell him what to do because something that worked for me should work for him? I have no idea. That is the most honest answer I can give.<br /><br />If someone asks me what I have found helpful, I will tell them. Not in an advice-giving way, just sharing my own experience.<br /><br />When I say, “I don’t know what you should do”, it leaves you with the responsibility to figure it out. And, it turns out that you figuring it out provides more value to you then all of the advice you might be getting elsewhere. So, I’m actually giving you a gift by saying I don’t know. I’m driving value to you because the alternative would keep you in a helpless, dependent position.<br /><br />Anybody who falls into the trap of telling others what to do is not thinking clearly. How can somebody, no matter how smart they are, know what’s best for me if they’re not me? They don’t even know me. This is true in families. It’s true with spouses. It’s true with kids. Do your parents know what’s best for you? They can’t possibly know. Most often, parents don’t even know what’s best for them! That’s just the way it is.<br /><br />This is the kind of experience that I try to give my clients; discombobulating their assumptions. Challenging these things they take as automatically true. I question them. I ask them, “Who told you that?”<br /><br />For example, when a client says to me, “I’d never ask my people to do something I’m not willing to do myself.” They tell me that and they really believe their practicing good leadership.<br /><br />I say, “That doesn’t make any sense to me. Why would you be doing what your people are doing? You’re not them. You’re not where they are. You’re leading. Why would you, as a Principal of a high school, think that you need to set up chairs in the auditorium? So your people think you’re one of them? Why do you need that coziness? Why do you need their approval? What should a top-notch Principal be doing? Do we need the Principal to set up chairs or to think about where the school is going?<br /><br />This is an example of really helping people think at a deeper level. Not just trite, throw away phrases. I’ve studied people and leadership for a long, long time, so I have at least a modest idea what this leadership thing is all about. Most people are very superficial in their understanding and I’m talking about people who head businesses, families and even nations.<br /><br />My business is thriving because we offer people a level of value that matches what they need. And, often times, what they don’t know they need. It is high value, high risk, and high reward type of work. It requires understanding someone’s life and work, so we can help them with the most important challenges. Meeting with people at this level brings a high level of meaningfulness and satisfaction to me, and to those who do this work with me.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">I know you work a lot at the family level with people as well. Can you tell me a little bit about that?</span><br /><br />It’s not so much work-life balance. It’s you understanding as a leader what the influence of your multi-generational history is on how you function everyday. Each of us grew up in a family system that produced patterns in us; emotional patterns, ways of acting, and ways of being that profoundly impact how we function. Those patterns are unconsciously governing our behavior everyday. We help leaders name and understand those patterns so they can make clearer choices about how they want to lead.<br /><br />So, the first part of my work is to help my clients get thinking about what the connection is between how they were raised and how they lead as well as how they show up to their own kids and their wife or husband. Again, I think this is a deeper look at self.<br /><br />My clients are quite wowed by this. I’m talking about people that have been all over the world and have done all kinds of things but they’ve never examined how their family history has influenced their functioning. We do a four generational family tree. We actually develop that with all of my clients, in an effort to help them go deeper and broader with their thinking. They’ve expressed profound appreciation for this aspect of what we do, and I think it’s because they’ve never thought about it.<br /><br />We do individual coaching, work with teams, and give presentations all over the world on leadership, but the Advanced Leadership Course is our core. I give those 25 people each year everything I’ve got because every one of them is hungry to grow and influential to many others.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">Where did the search for depth come from?</span><br /><br />It came from my own experiences as a youngster. I experienced a lot of chaos in my life growing up. I grew up during Vietnam and the assassinations. There was a lot of heaviness during my childhood, in our home and in the world. The war was on TV every night, so I got sensitized to it all. It wasn’t something that I could ignore. I was thinking about it a lot. Then, my twin brother was killed in a car accident when I was 21 and a senior in college. That just rocked me.<br /><br />From an early age, I was on a mission to find myself. So, what I’m asking my clients to do I am familiar with. I had to figure out how to grow up, deal with pain, with loss, and with the fact that I only have one life to live. What do I want to do with it?<br /><br />I have been fortunate to marry a woman who is a person of great depth. We have shared questions and conversations with our three children from way back. We have tried to make conscious decisions about exposing our kids to the often-overlooked realities of life. As a quick example, we’ve made three trips to Bangladesh and two trips to a Harlem soup kitchen with our kids, but we’ve never been to Disney World. We don’t have anything against Disney World because for some people it’s great, but it’s just not our thing. My two sons would rather be wilderness camping than hanging out in a resort.<br /><br />Bangladesh is a pretty out of the way place. I was introduced to it many years ago when a cyclone hit and I was wondering how I could help. Then I met a girl in an orphanage there who is now our daughter. One thing leads to another.<br /><br />My purpose in life is to live at that deeper level. That’s what I want to do, and that’s what I invite others into. Some of the world’s best thinkers, individuals like Dr. Murray Bowen and Dr. Ed Friedman, have been my teachers; I know I did not arrive at this place without help. So, I have committed the rest of my life to teach others the ideas, principles and strategies that relate to being a more emotionally mature and responsible self. That’s what I’ve studied and that’s what I’ve tried to live.<br /><br />It’s not really about business, it’s about life.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">What’s next for you? </span><br /><br />Lately I’ve been thinking about putting many of these ideas and principals into print. So, I think that’s next for me.<br /><br />In addition, I’ve been doing this advanced level leadership work with CEOs for 25 years and a large percentage of my clients have reported to me that they wish they would have been exposed to this material earlier in their careers. These people are generally 35 to 60. One of my dreams is to deliver these ideas to 22 -30 year old high potential leaders.<br /><br />These are life changing ideas. It would be great to find a way to give these skills to people earlier in life.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">Final thoughts? </span><br /><br />One thing that I’ve tried to do in my career that has really helped my business tremendously - and, it’s a great way to live - is win-win relationships. I never want to take from somebody unless I can give and I don’t want to give unless I can take. I’m always looking for the mutual aspect of an exchange.<br /><br />I have three children; Nick, 23, Joe, 19, and Maria, 18. It’s important to me that our children see a lack of pretense when they look at my wife and myself.<br /><br />My business is not slick or fancy. It reflects my own blue-collar background and values. This lack of pretense is what our clients are looking for. At the end of the day, our clients respond to the genuineness they see in us. They know we will ask them the important questions and challenge them without worrying about their approval.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">John Engels</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Founder & President</span><br />Leadership Coaching, Inc.<br />E: John@LeadershipCoachingInc.com<br /></div>NOTABLE and NEWSWORTHYhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12124005321873558462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1026930076996575988.post-32465283891638586022009-03-10T02:07:00.003-05:002009-03-10T02:13:50.560-05:00Your Mood<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjPVdqN4WYXGaclX1tOUlSjRgPV6oxpmKyRrQZUs6pxAMbTbMcD9SKxtIPS66BcFcaF2czucqGovBcQf608ArfLJ1bCLn45yn0pwovLjbC54nRFklYM3H_a2ZcTfLNjLFryMETARXbbstE/s1600-h/Your+Mood.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 295px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjPVdqN4WYXGaclX1tOUlSjRgPV6oxpmKyRrQZUs6pxAMbTbMcD9SKxtIPS66BcFcaF2czucqGovBcQf608ArfLJ1bCLn45yn0pwovLjbC54nRFklYM3H_a2ZcTfLNjLFryMETARXbbstE/s320/Your+Mood.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5311452781471417650" border="0" /></a><br />By: Joseph Norman<br /><br /><div style="display: inline;" id="pastedDivNode">Recently, I was having a conversation with a friend of mine at the gym I work out at in Rochester and he mentioned a family trip he just went on to Florida. I responded with a similar story about my business trip there a week or so ago. Inevitably, we talked about the sun and the weather.<br /><br />If you live in Western New York you know that right now it is a little gloomy out there. Although it's getting warmer, many of the days are grey and dull. Warm days it might rain while the occasional cold spell still bites us with chilly winds and a March or April flurry.<br /><br />Now, my friend is a successful businessman with an attitude and positive energy that is simply unstoppable. But, we reflected on the fact that sometimes it's tough to keep a great mood up in the final days of winter with the grey skies looming. And, this got me thinking...<br /><br />There is definitely a difference between your attitude and your mood. You can meet a predominantly positive person that could still be moody just as some people with poor attitudes sometimes have great days.<br /><br />So, what's the difference between your attitude and your mood?<br /><br />Your attitude is like your foundation. It's what makes you who you are and what carries you through the day, no matter the circumstances. Meanwhile, your mood is your reaction to the moment. It seems like a minor thing but it's actually a big difference.<br /><br />Everyday we hear the Dr. Phil's of the world talk about attitude, but how often do we consider our own control over our mood? <br /><br />The truth is we can change our moods instantly. Are you in a bad mood? All you have to do to change it is make a decision to be happy and make your bad mood a good one. Because your mood is more or less a surface reaction to what's happening in the "right now" of your life, you can change your mood quickly. That's a powerful thing to think about.<br /><br />When was the last time you said or heard the phrase, "Oh, I just woke up on the wrong side of the bed this morning?" You've probably heard it at least once in the last week. Have you ever thought about what that phrase even means? It's completely ridiculous.<br /><br />What is the wrong side of the bed anyway? Left side or right side? Does it really matter? Nope.<br /><br />No matter which "side of the bed" you woke up on, you decide your mood. Here are a few strategies to immediately change your state if you find the "wrong side of the bed" syndrome creeping into your day.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Make peace with whatever is bothering you</span>. Accept it and move on. Or, take a few moments to devise a plan to tackle the problem, than put that plan into action.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Compartmentalize when you can</span>. The truth is you can't always control what is happening around you. This holds particularly true if you are listening to someone else venting about their issues or if you're down because of the weather. If you want to, be there for them and empathize with them, but don't let it ruin your mood after the conversation is over. In addition, you'll never be able to manage Mother Nature. Simply box it up and pack it away because you can only solve problems you have control over.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Think about a song you really like</span>. Music has a tremendous power over us. A good piece of music can lift us right up. Use that to your advantage!<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Smile</span>. It's amazing what forcing yourself to smile can do. Your body associates good feelings with smiling, so use a little trickery to boost your mood. When I was running competitively in high school and college, I would pick spots on the course before a race where I would plan to smile. No matter how much pain I was in when I reached those points I would always get a little boost from making myself smile. I still use this strategy in competition.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Use props</span>. Carry something small with you at all times which you associate with good feelings. It could be a piece of jewelry with spiritual significance to you or even a pebble from a beach you went to on vacation. Whatever it is, use it! When you're feeling down, just grab your "prop" for a moment and remind yourself that ultimately life is good and you are in control.<br /><br />If every one of us took a little time to think about how to effectively change our inevitable bad moods into good ones, our homes, workplaces, and communities would be a much more positive place. Give yourself the gift of a good mood today!</div>NOTABLE and NEWSWORTHYhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12124005321873558462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1026930076996575988.post-84783892228669127972009-03-03T23:56:00.003-05:002009-03-04T00:00:26.570-05:00Napoleon Hill<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj_AHUanIKuzjiVd7QBqIdcvMSwQJUnXR3Ev6xQFjI4dbs8gZgtDGH3t4X6SMavNJqc6uxM6n6ik6CmO1KRvqTdRGHqAn-l25OBT4_ulpIWDLRxTNwidunRhRCAju6odHclD_5XYiC3d8I/s1600-h/Napoleon+Hill.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 260px; height: 312px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj_AHUanIKuzjiVd7QBqIdcvMSwQJUnXR3Ev6xQFjI4dbs8gZgtDGH3t4X6SMavNJqc6uxM6n6ik6CmO1KRvqTdRGHqAn-l25OBT4_ulpIWDLRxTNwidunRhRCAju6odHclD_5XYiC3d8I/s320/Napoleon+Hill.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5309192992442218306" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><div style="display: inline;" id="pastedDivNode"><div style="font-style: italic;">Napoleon Hill (1883-1970) was an accomplished business consultant, author and lecturer. For over twenty five years he studied some of the world’s greatest business leaders to discover what made them so successful. These were people like Andrew Carnegie, Henry Ford, Thomas Edison, Theodore Roosevelt and many more! His discoveries were published in his landmark bestseller, Think and Grow Rich. The following are excerpts from Think and Grow Rich. They are timeless messages which apply more than ever to the unique challenges we’re facing in Western New York and the world right now. </div><div> </div> <div> <span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />On Leadership: </span><br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">In times of distress, there is invariably a call for new leadership. We recently saw it on the national scene with the election of a new President of the United States. In turn, we will continue to see it in our neighborhoods and workplaces as we continue to face the challenges currently presented by our domestic and world economies. Here are Napoleon Hill’s Major Attributes of Leadership:</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">UNWAVERING COURAGE</span> based upon knowledge of self and of one’s occupation. No follower wishes to be dominated by a leader who lacks self-confidence and courage. No intelligent follower will be dominated by such a leader for very long.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">SELF-CONTROL</span>. People who cannot control themselves can never control others. Self-control sets a mighty example for one’s followers, which the more intelligent will emulate.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">A KEEN SENSE OF JUSTICE</span>. Without a sense of fairness and justice, no leader can command and retain the respect of his or her followers.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">DEFINITENESS IN DECISION.</span> People who waver in decisions show that they are not sure of themselves. They cannot lead others successfully.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">DEFINITENESS OF PLANS.</span> The successful leader must plan the work, and work the plan. A leader who moves by guesswork without practical, definite plans is comparable to a ship without a rudder. Sooner or later it will land on the rocks.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">THE HABIT OF DOING MORE THAN PAID FOR.</span> One of the penalties of leadership is the necessity of willingness, upon the part of the leaders, to do more than they require of their followers.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">A PLEASING PERSONALITY.</span> No slovenly, careless person can become a successful leader. Leadership calls for respect. Followers will not respect leaders who do not score highly on all factors of a pleasing personality.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">SYMPATHY AND UNDERSTANDING.</span> Successful leaders must be in sympathy with their followers. Moreover, they must understand them and their problems.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">MASTERY OF DETAIL.</span> Successful leadership calls for mastery of details of the leader’s position.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">WILLINGNESS TO ASSUME FULL RESPONSIBILITY.</span> Successful leaders must be willing to assume responsibility for the mistakes and shortcomings of their followers. If they try to shift this responsibility, they will not remain leaders. If followers make mistakes and become incompetent, it is the leader who has failed.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">COOPERATION.</span> Successful leaders must understand and apply the principle of cooperative effort and be able to induce followers to do the same. Leadership calls for power, and power calls for cooperation.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">On Self-Confidence:</span><br /><br />“I will eliminate hatred, envy, jealousy, selfishness and cynicism by developing love for all humanity because I know that a negative attitude towards others can never bring me success. I will cause others to believe in me, because I will believe in them, and in myself.”<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">On Poverty and Riches:</span><br /><br />Poverty and riches often change places. Poverty may, and generally does, voluntarily take the place of riches. When riches take the place of poverty, the change is usually brought about through well-conceived and carefully executed plans. Poverty needs no plan. It needs no one to aid it, because it is bold and ruthless. Riches are shy and timid. They have to be “attracted.”<br /><br />Anybody can wish for riches, and most people do, but only a few know that a definite plan plus a burning desire for wealth are the only dependable means of accumulating it. </div></div>NOTABLE and NEWSWORTHYhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12124005321873558462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1026930076996575988.post-21794547277657397352009-02-24T01:40:00.003-05:002009-02-24T01:44:44.767-05:00Unconventional Wisdom<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgXrNx03qS9T2Pz7BDGKTetj0LVomLaaUtD7EEbZ3QyeNAiw-z8ixDs0V6FCuj82tdc3sezDhJ_nry6EFCrFIvWOzoT22ARFgxGaTfXFJpX-lyjOlhX2NeHB_s0tiUaOnEuEluWr-z9kLA/s1600-h/Unconventional+Wisdom.gif"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgXrNx03qS9T2Pz7BDGKTetj0LVomLaaUtD7EEbZ3QyeNAiw-z8ixDs0V6FCuj82tdc3sezDhJ_nry6EFCrFIvWOzoT22ARFgxGaTfXFJpX-lyjOlhX2NeHB_s0tiUaOnEuEluWr-z9kLA/s320/Unconventional+Wisdom.gif" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5306251090965941938" border="0" /></a><br />By: Joseph Norman<br /><br /><div style="display: inline;" id="pastedDivNode">“Above all else, be daring, be bold, be unconventional.” - Kevin Rampe<br /><br />What’s the best way to get out of a rut or simply spice up your personal or professional life? Make it a point to do something a little unconventional. Why? It takes you out of your comfort zone and opens you up to new possibilities.<br /><br />There’s a lot of doom and gloom going around in the world right now. In fact, the evening news is becoming one of our psyche’s worst enemies. Admittedly, I barely even watch it anymore. I mostly just pay attention to the local happenings, some political updates, and specific articles relative to my business pursuits. I aim to be informed enough to stay well equipped for conversation, but sheltered enough to stay positive.<br /><br />It’s easy to get caught up in the routines of the day to day so my recommendation is to try something unconventional. For me and my business partner, it was taking our efforts to a new state and trying out our first mini road show to drum up new business. Phone time with potential real estate investors is great, but we decided that face time is even better. So, we dropped our Rochester specific obligations and bought a couple tickets to Florida.<br /><br />Just the act itself helped us discover new avenues in which we can improve our real estate business. We work with many out of town investors, so we thought to ourselves, “Why not head out of town and meet some?” So, we did and it’s been a very productive trip.<br /><br />Furthermore, in the spirit of unconventional wisdom, the website Half.com used a unique approach to marketing. They got a small town in Oregon to rename itself “Half.com.” Before that point they pushed thousands upon thousands of dollars into advertising. With just this act, they got more press then they ever got before and for minimal cost; all because they did something a little unconventional.<br /><br />What can you bring back to your life in Western New York? Despite all the culture, art, and music, there is plenty of opportunity to do something a little bit outside of the box. So, this week’s challenge is to do just that. Break out of the norm and start thinking with some unconventional wisdom.<br /><br />If we all take a little time to think outside the box, than we can make a more dramatic impact on our community. We live in an ever-changing world which requires unconventional wisdom to make things better. As Mahatma Gandhi would say, “Be the change you want to see in the world.” Let’s start trying a few new things in our lives here in Western New York and start shaking up the routine! </div>NOTABLE and NEWSWORTHYhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12124005321873558462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1026930076996575988.post-19052663306729724932009-02-17T01:35:00.004-05:002009-02-17T02:21:29.907-05:00Michael Leach<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEihEha0UkR3CIjeykDymmEChD302R2ac2f5_6cgUhQSgQk3VJNrhP6civHqAIe_21P-fbm6bcgvI_aYv8TeK5xF3rHtv2EOTT8oGa21DDT0ZZVqIFPmR3XRnLvHW6LJT7hLo-LtQIkR_zk/s1600-h/Krakowiak.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 202px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEihEha0UkR3CIjeykDymmEChD302R2ac2f5_6cgUhQSgQk3VJNrhP6civHqAIe_21P-fbm6bcgvI_aYv8TeK5xF3rHtv2EOTT8oGa21DDT0ZZVqIFPmR3XRnLvHW6LJT7hLo-LtQIkR_zk/s320/Krakowiak.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5303660905705401506" border="0" /></a>
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We were spending time on an initiative to build an international sister region relationship between Livingston County, the Greater Rochester Area and the Eastern Region in Ghana. Michael has been the main bureaucrat representing the City of Rochester during the effort which continues to this day. He has been an instrumental resource in terms of international community development from a political perspective. <o:p></o:p></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><i style=""><o:p> </o:p></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><i style="">
<br /></i></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><i style="">Michael’s passion for building an international community is unprecedented. Primarily working as an Engineer for the city, most of his volunteer hours are dedicated to improving and unifying the 11 sister city relationships currently held by the City of Rochester. Meanwhile, in his free time, he plays in an Irish band as well as many other musical groups and dances in a variety of cultural dance troops. It is an honor and a pleasure to feature some of his insights! ~Joseph & the Bigger Impact Team</i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><b style="">
<br /></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><b style="">How did you get your start? Where did you grow up? <o:p></o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">I grew up on a farm in Michigan and my aspiration was to be a science and math teacher. When I was getting out of college there were no teaching jobs. It was in the very early 1970s and things were financially tight. I wound up part time teaching and then landed a job as a bureaucrat for the city manager of Jackson, Michigan. </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">The guy that they brought to Michigan actually worked in Rochester to help resolve many social and racial issues. So, instead of teaching I was working in city administration; ran an airport, a youth program, and did computer programming. <span style=""> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">Then, I went to Syracuse University to learn how to be a bureaucrat in eleven easy months at the Maxwell School. Wound up having an offer from Monroe County to work in their budget office as well as an offer from Greenville, South Carolina. It was roughly the same salary and I knew what the music was in South Carolina and in Rochester, so I naturally took the job in Rochester. </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">Found some musicians soon and ended up in an Irish band here as well as a Folk Dance Troop. Later came over to work with the city. With my connections to the folk dancing troops, I was asked to organize some international performances for the Lilac Festival. So, I did that over in Highland Park for a few years. That was in and around 1983, just one year before the City of Rochester was celebrating its 150 year anniversary. At that point I did my first work with the Sister Cities Program and helped bring in about 175 international people for Sister Cities’ week. </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg7HXsFLlYNGnc6tUgfWKgbAHRqMin-C_Pu4tI1KxJYlThOoGB5QXrT3z-8lT5R6D3YzmtAtKW28PFyoLzr33e2A16v0YIZMM_5iS8SLG_rFvhkuOKOs2UhI0AH1KjjXnZxrl-HFXZPrRk/s1600-h/Copy+of+AccJam001.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg7HXsFLlYNGnc6tUgfWKgbAHRqMin-C_Pu4tI1KxJYlThOoGB5QXrT3z-8lT5R6D3YzmtAtKW28PFyoLzr33e2A16v0YIZMM_5iS8SLG_rFvhkuOKOs2UhI0AH1KjjXnZxrl-HFXZPrRk/s320/Copy+of+AccJam001.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5303661449578752338" border="0" /></a></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">In 1991, I was invited onto the Board of Sister Cities. Since then, I’ve served on a variety of committees and have helped organize many international festivals. All of these things helped me realize and understand the importance of establishing international connections. All of these rich groups of people make up one rich community. </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">I grew up in a small white, Catholic town in Michigan where at the family dinner at our church you could count on about four different varieties of meatloaf. And the variety would be in whether they would put ketchup or strips of bacon on top. </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">So, when I came out here and realized there were about 100 types of bacon and hams and many other wonderful things, it was fantastic. I thought you would have to go to New York City or Chicago to find this type of cultural richness, but it is right here in Rochester. </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">Instead of becoming a city manager and roaming the country every three to five years, I stayed here with my Irish band and my dancing troops and have become deeply involved with the International Sister Cities Program. </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">We want to rebuild the strong community connection and know that we can develop the plans to be more ambitious. So, I’ve tried to develop our planning abilities and our ability to make contact with the big funders. I want to help build a unified strength in our Sister Cities program again. </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><b style="">
<br /></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><b style="">What instruments do you play? <o:p></o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">For the Irish music I play the banjo, guitar, and tin whistle. When we’re doing North American music I play harmonicas, harps, and other absurd noise makers. During Bulgarian music I’ll use string instruments like tom bras. </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGOawx3kCyPC96Yq2LpL-HUWkZ_Gi4ZPqXZ4pYX2izPRsd55PA0bruxxUb8IyvJyR7hdsLSRcEptUo3Gb9UnTTrkpPkMlQiY5btnVMd6gDFNLBwJCYUsiWjYtkIRnsvDStFOSgWk0V9r0/s1600-h/Mike+Leach+2-4-2005a.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 265px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGOawx3kCyPC96Yq2LpL-HUWkZ_Gi4ZPqXZ4pYX2izPRsd55PA0bruxxUb8IyvJyR7hdsLSRcEptUo3Gb9UnTTrkpPkMlQiY5btnVMd6gDFNLBwJCYUsiWjYtkIRnsvDStFOSgWk0V9r0/s320/Mike+Leach+2-4-2005a.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5303661459352925986" border="0" /></a></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><b style="">
<br /></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><b style="">If you could meet any three people, who would they be? <o:p></o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">Marcus Aurilius. When you read about his writings on stoicism and his time as a military leader in the Roman Empire and later as an emperor, it makes you wonder how he approached his life…its an immense curiosity to wonder how a man like that might think. </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">I would like to have met the Science Fiction author, Robert Heinlein. He was an Annapolis graduate and went into the Navy on active duty. Then he was discharged and it broke his heart. But, he was involved in military research as a civilian which kept him connected. Through that time he was writing a lot of the early science fiction. His stories focus on an individual; usually a young man who is in situations where honor, duty, humor, and decency to other human beings are a part of what’s going on. Some of his politics I disagree with greatly, but his strong values I admire. When I grew up it was his books in the library so they had a lot of influence on me. </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">One thing I always remember about him was his self-proclaimed standard of writing. He writes to a “beer standard,” he would say. “A young man has a weekend night coming up; he can go to the store and buy a six pack of beer or my novel. I have to write well enough so that he buys my novel and not that six-pack.” That observation stuck with me about how to measure accomplishments and success. He was being facetious with that but it is a practical application. </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">The problem is there are hundreds of others, but who would I like to meet in this moment; who would I like to listen to and hear their thoughts? I would like to sit and have a conversation with a historian, Stavrianos. He wrote a book World Since 1500: A Global History. He wasn’t focused on who was the king and what was this war, but rather the development of nations and cultures; people and how they influenced each other. </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><b style="">
<br /></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><b style="">What advice would you give to Western New York? <o:p></o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">Western New York is one of the key industrial heartlands of the United States, although the industries are changing. The rust belt industries are gone and a lot of the manufacturing we are doing now will be gone. It will not survive. We have to learn to change and to snatch the opportunities. We have to look beyond our immediate communities. We have to reach abroad to be connected with the world. </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">The Sister Cities Program is one thing that helps build those connections but it also helps provide education to the kids and to give them confidence that they can participate successfully in a global world. Western New York has been historically globally connected and it has to stay that way. It has to reach out and train children in other languages, cultures, religions, and philosophies. They must be taught not to succumb to the fears of challenges. Their teachings need to give them the faith and skills to help them become successful in the outside world. </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">So, my advice is to develop the skills, philosophies, and institutions to let us be connected internationally and survive. </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><b style="">
<br /></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><b style="">What is one of your favorite quotes? <o:p></o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">“No matter how high or lofty the throne, what sits on it is the same as your own.” – Terry Brooks</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><b style="">
<br /></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><b style="">What is your favorite place to eat in Rochester? <o:p></o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">I go to the Mount Hope Diner or the South Wedge Diner because the food is very good and inexpensive and there are some nice folks there. It’s plain, unpretentious, and comfortable. </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><b style="">
<br /></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><b style="">What is your favorite place to go in the summer in Rochester?
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<br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">Highland Park. It's a section of the city that really strikes me. I grew up on a farm so I can't stand the feel of the suburbs. Here in the city there is flavor and variety. I love that. </p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><o:p> </o:p></p> <span style="line-height: 115%;font-family:";font-size:11;" ></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<br />Michael Leach can be reached at Mike.Leach@cityofrochester.gov. <span style="line-height: 115%;font-family:";font-size:11;" >
<br /></span>NOTABLE and NEWSWORTHYhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12124005321873558462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1026930076996575988.post-9544162022475614542009-02-10T02:22:00.002-05:002009-02-10T02:28:54.814-05:00Valentine's Day Secrets<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiwDd9LJnEsxa4ixzs4jyn0s-KXEvqFO9Mt2F2gikmo7iQ77xqJ95iOq__nq7UL-BEdMOcDlveQKsKWesy8RnHZB9J7K5c0R9zT-ESH9dG_I3ZksUIRak_xoUkx-1vdqd-sGSgS4ibMl0I/s1600-h/Valentine's+Day.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 250px; height: 272px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiwDd9LJnEsxa4ixzs4jyn0s-KXEvqFO9Mt2F2gikmo7iQ77xqJ95iOq__nq7UL-BEdMOcDlveQKsKWesy8RnHZB9J7K5c0R9zT-ESH9dG_I3ZksUIRak_xoUkx-1vdqd-sGSgS4ibMl0I/s320/Valentine's+Day.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5301067363611975858" border="0" /></a><br /><div style="display: inline;" id="pastedDivNode">By: Joseph Norman<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">“But I shall let it remain a secret for ever, since it should not be written of: the most delightful and choicest pleasure is that which is hinted at, but never told.”</span> - Chretien de Troyes<br /><br />Valentine’s Day is a special day for lovers and a scary day for singles. I’m going to go out on a limb and say that millions of women are freaking out right now because Valentine’s Day is a very big deal to them. Even for men, it’s an easy day to feel loved or lonely.<br /><br />This life we live is about feelings, emotions, and experiences and words don’t always do them justice. But, I’m going to try for you today because I think there are some important things we can take from the legendary experience of a Valentine’s Day lived well.<br /><br />My thoughts today stem from the fact that everybody deserves and desires to feel appreciated. We all want to be loved and feel loved. It’s human nature to want that. The beauty of this fact is that recognition, a form of appreciation, is a harmless strain of vanity. It’s a gift we can freely give to lift people up and raise them to new heights.<br /><br />There are three keys to making someone really feel special this Valentine’s Day; be creative, be mysterious, and be authentic.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Be creative.</span> Do something different. Break the routine. Play a song that reminds you of them on their voice mail. Make a card instead of buying one. Don’t go out for a romantic dinner at some fancy restaurant; instead try creating your own atmosphere in your own place with music and food you both like. Make a short, funny movie together which expresses your appreciation for a mutual friend. The possibilities are endless, so be original with your creation!<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Be mysterious.</span> What is it about the “secret admirer” situation that drives us completely mad? The beauty is in the mystery. Who could it be? What is it about you that inspired their sudden attention? Try flattering someone with a random act of kindness. Anonymously send them a note with an honest compliment. Then a few days later, if you want to, let them in on the secret of who sent it. Instill a hint of mystery in your interactions of appreciation with the people in your life.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Be authentic.</span> Whatever you say or do this week to make someone feel special, make sure it comes from a place of honesty. Hollow words are the easiest to see through. Be genuine with your actions and words as that will enable you to make the greatest impact. And, that’s what the spirit of this day is all about, making an impact on someone you value having in your life.<br /><br />But, why do we have to wait until Valentine’s Day to let the people in our life know we appreciate them? We don’t and that’s our challenge to you now that you’re armed with some knowledge about how to make a deep impact on the people around you. Spread it around all year. Even if it is just a genuine smile and a silent blessing of good will, make it a goal to brighten one person’s day, everyday.<br /><br />The secret of living is giving. Imagine what our community in Western New York would be like if everyone took just a few minutes everyday to make someone feel appreciated. That’s a place I’d be proud to call home. </div>NOTABLE and NEWSWORTHYhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12124005321873558462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1026930076996575988.post-9148314802894725162009-02-02T23:56:00.003-05:002009-02-02T23:58:30.119-05:00Michael Linehan<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiltzGqki8wrYQU4SVO-btYeYhQMNRbgf-Js_6nJywUelG9ihYuUqpIiuwvupK8D2gDp5-6qIq5z1ONaBcNTP9oPjeErVRvqmqMepPjIRbmJf_viDbtsP1wmXEXWrbIoHftHgBQrweXZC4/s1600-h/Michael+Linehan.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 150px; height: 149px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiltzGqki8wrYQU4SVO-btYeYhQMNRbgf-Js_6nJywUelG9ihYuUqpIiuwvupK8D2gDp5-6qIq5z1ONaBcNTP9oPjeErVRvqmqMepPjIRbmJf_viDbtsP1wmXEXWrbIoHftHgBQrweXZC4/s320/Michael+Linehan.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5298430683186179218" border="0" /></a><br /><span><div style="display: inline;" id="pastedDivNode"><span style="font-style: italic;">“Mike and I met over lunch a few months ago courtesy of an introduction by our mutual friend David Mammano. Before we first sat down, I knew he was young, ambitious, and connected to a prestigious Rochester family, but I had no idea what to expect. At that point, I was pleased to find a down to earth man with tremendous charisma and an infectious laugh. The conversation lasted for over an hour at the newest restaurant in his personal business repertoire, Coppergrass Bistro (Farm Fresh Kitchen at the time). He was wonderfully generous with his time and knowledge and we enjoyed a fantastic meal together. Since then I’ve started serving at Coppergrass part time and have come to think very highly of the business operation Michael and his team run; three Rochester Camille’s Sidewalk Cafés and Coppergrass Bistro, a seasonal gourmet restaurant in Pittsford Plaza. He is a true visionary and it is an honor and a pleasure to feature some of his insights!” ~Joseph & Bigger Impact Weekly team</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Having grown up in such a well known, successful family, what is it that motivated you to live the entrepreneurial life you lead now? </span><br /><br />One of the things I remember my mother saying to me growing up was; “You’ve got to go out and make it yourself. You can’t depend on falling back on the family.” That really stuck with me and as a result, I’ve always been super ambitious. Part of it I’m sure is my genes, but much of the family lineage has had that passion. There have been many entrepreneurs in the ranks on both my father and my mother’s side.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">What advice would you give to the people of Western New York? </span><br /><br />There’s a lot of opportunity here. We have access to some tremendous colleges and universities right in our backyard. It’s a comfortable place to live with a high quality of life. And, for a person that wants to raise a family it’s a fantastic place to do that.<br /><br />One of the biggest things I’ve learned in business thus far is experience is the most valuable tool out there. Always be open to learning new ideas and improving things you’re already doing. Educating yourself is essential. Surround yourself with the smartest people possible and really listen to them.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Why should someone live in Western New York? </span><br /><br />It’s funny because my three siblings all live out of town now and my parents are snowbirds, so I’m the only one here braving the winters. But, I do have a huge family and a lot of good friends here. The truth is it’s a really nice community. People really care about the town and Rochester has a lot to offer. I love the quality of life I have here; with short commutes and some major cities only a short plane ride away.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">What are some of your goals going forward? </span><br /><br />Going forward, my business ambitions revolve around looking into new restaurant concepts and continuing the success of the current portfolio. Ultimately, the long term vision is to find a concept that we can grow outside of Rochester and hopefully go nationally. But, for right now, we’re slowing down and making sure the businesses we’re already in are operating as well as possible.<br /><br />Michael can be reached at: Mike@CoppergrassBistro.com<br /></div></span>NOTABLE and NEWSWORTHYhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12124005321873558462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1026930076996575988.post-51953050390396259382009-01-27T02:39:00.001-05:002009-01-27T02:40:23.951-05:00Challenges and Choices<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjgrBiKKwF1eRKYe-so5Rx9Xo0gh2VovRK4ZgrGRlonN0NlOBBrlt-f0kGVqozvEJxKTNhDmEP66ejB9L2cGEH7COkRf5p9w-nPBbFNs909wRc78tp815us2SIB2dfv7j1Sya987edClZY/s1600-h/Challenges.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 247px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjgrBiKKwF1eRKYe-so5Rx9Xo0gh2VovRK4ZgrGRlonN0NlOBBrlt-f0kGVqozvEJxKTNhDmEP66ejB9L2cGEH7COkRf5p9w-nPBbFNs909wRc78tp815us2SIB2dfv7j1Sya987edClZY/s320/Challenges.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5295875128456205554" border="0" /></a><br />By: Joseph Norman<br /><br /><div style="display: inline;" id="pastedDivNode">People get sick. They go broke. They lose their jobs. They get divorced. They struggle with physical or emotional pains. They grow up in the "wrong part of town." They go hungry. They experience the death of a loved one.<br /><br />As beautiful as life is, it challenges us. It stares us in the face and tests us to be better people.<br /><br />Life isn't always graceful and fate often proves to be a fickle friend. But, it's not always the circumstance that matters the most, but rather the choices we make in response to the cards we're dealt. You must ask yourself, "Is it the beginning or is it the end?" Your answer defines your destiny. <br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic; text-decoration: underline;">Are you facing some challenges right now? </span><br /><br />Here are some ideas that might help you get through them a little easier.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Talk to a close friend or family member about how you are feeling or what you are experiencing.</span> Once you get a grip on what you're going through yourself, share it with others so you can get a new perspective on the matter. They may have already gone through the same problem in their own life and their insights could be invaluable to you.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Accept the situation for what it is, but don't be quick to accept defeat.</span> Tim Robbins' character in the movie Shawshank Redemption said; "Hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things. And, no good thing ever dies." There's always a silver lining and victory is always for the persistent.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Know that failure is often just a stepping stone towards success.</span> When we fail, we learn lessons winning could never teach us. Don't ever expect failure, but embrace it if it happens. Often, it is a blessing in disguise. <br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Pain is temporary, pride is forever.</span> Your long term satisfaction will far outweigh the short term sacrifices you may be making (or forced to make).<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Be true to yourself.</span> Face your problems with integrity and you will never be ashamed to look at the face you see in the mirror. Taking care of that person is the most important part of facing any challenge.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Above all, believe in yourself.</span> At the end of the day, you're a great person. You deserve to have a life of prosperity and happiness. Remember that you can create these pleasures with a simple change in your attitude.<br /><br />Challenges present themselves in our lives on a daily basis, but it's the choices we make in response to them which create our realities. Life is all about perspective.</div>NOTABLE and NEWSWORTHYhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12124005321873558462noreply@blogger.com